Comments on: my husband got divorce order from family court but i want to save my marriage i have a girl child? http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:13:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Mrs.P http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6259 Mrs.P Thu, 15 Apr 2010 04:29:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6259 Then you should talk to him about saving the marriage. Do what ever it is to save your marriage.<br><b>References : </b><br> Then you should talk to him about saving the marriage. Do what ever it is to save your marriage.
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]]> By: Pickleheaded possum http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6258 Pickleheaded possum Thu, 15 Apr 2010 03:55:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6258 It is you right to appeal a divorce order. Force him to go to counseling & work out your problems. If not then at least you did what you could.The fault will be on HIM !<br><b>References : </b><br> It is you right to appeal a divorce order. Force him to go to counseling & work out your problems. If not then at least you did what you could.The fault will be on HIM !
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]]> By: Diamond! http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6257 Diamond! Thu, 15 Apr 2010 03:26:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6257 There are 2 questions you have to ask yourself: 1) Why did your husband do this - what are the reasons he filed for divorce? Is this because of you? 2) What can you do to fix these issues in your relationship and make him stay with you!<br><b>References : </b><br>http://winyourhusbandback.wordpress.com/2009/06/03/is-it-possible-to-win-back-a-husband-who-wants-a-divorce/ There are 2 questions you have to ask yourself:

1) Why did your husband do this – what are the reasons he filed for divorce? Is this because of you?

2) What can you do to fix these issues in your relationship and make him stay with you!
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]]> By: mamamoon http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6256 mamamoon Thu, 15 Apr 2010 03:09:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6256 Do you want your marriage to work just because you have a daughter? Because that will not make a marriage. If you love this man and truly want to be his wife because of him and you then talk to him....tell him how you feel. However if you want to make this marriage work just because you have a child it won't work. Marriage takes commitment, love, trust, respect and work. In order for a marriage to work both parties need to want it to. You can't force him to love you. I'm so sorry I know it hurts. Hang in there I swear you will get though this.<br><b>References : </b><br>divorced after 5 years was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through Do you want your marriage to work just because you have a daughter? Because that will not make a marriage.
If you love this man and truly want to be his wife because of him and you then talk to him….tell him how you feel. However if you want to make this marriage work just because you have a child it won’t work. Marriage takes commitment, love, trust, respect and work. In order for a marriage to work both parties need to want it to. You can’t force him to love you.
I’m so sorry I know it hurts.
Hang in there I swear you will get though this.
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divorced after 5 years was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through

]]> By: George McCasland - Papa Bear http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6255 George McCasland - Papa Bear Thu, 15 Apr 2010 02:19:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6255 Show him these" All Children Deserve Two Parents Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a father’s guidance in children’s lives is a major cause of their suffering. “Marriage is the best child welfare, crime prevention, anti-poverty program we have,” http://www.barnesville.com/archives/266-gem-from-jim-octuplets.....html Fortune Magazine - Fatherless Families & Crime “Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless.” http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune_archive/1992/08/10/76732/index.htm Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children "We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent." http://www.stanford.edu/~rmahony/Divorce.html 10 Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives Dr. Laura Schlessinger http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stupid-Things-Men-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Lives/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780641865411/?itm=8 Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids Dr. Laura Schlessinger http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stupid-Things-Parents-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Kids/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060933791/?itm=12 Fatherless America : Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem David Blankenhorn http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Fatherless-America/David-Blankenhorn/e/9780060926830/?itm=1<br><b>References : </b><br> Show him these"

All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a father’s guidance in children’s lives is a major cause of their suffering. “Marriage is the best child welfare, crime prevention, anti-poverty program we have,”
http://www.barnesville.com/archives/266-gem-from-jim-octuplets…..html

Fortune Magazine – Fatherless Families & Crime
“Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless.”
http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune_archive/1992/08/10/76732/index.htm

Stanford University – Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
http://www.stanford.edu/~rmahony/Divorce.html

10 Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stupid-Things-Men-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Lives/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780641865411/?itm=8

Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stupid-Things-Parents-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Kids/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060933791/?itm=12

Fatherless America : Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem
David Blankenhorn
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Fatherless-America/David-Blankenhorn/e/9780060926830/?itm=1
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]]> By: Bs Girl http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6254 Bs Girl Thu, 15 Apr 2010 01:48:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6254 Sounds like wanting to fix this is one sided and all you can do is focus on your child and move on with your life cause it sounds like he has. Good luck to you!<br><b>References : </b><br>Been there a long time ago! Now my life couldn't be better it does get easier! Sounds like wanting to fix this is one sided and all you can do is focus on your child and move on with your life cause it sounds like he has. Good luck to you!
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Been there a long time ago! Now my life couldn’t be better it does get easier!

]]> By: bandaid_46 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6253 bandaid_46 Thu, 15 Apr 2010 01:00:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6253 If your husband got a divorce from the court, there isn't much you can do. In this country, you don't have to remain married to someone if you don't want to. Get yourself a good attorney and make sure that your husband pays child support and your legal fees. Sometimes after we have done all we can to save a marriage, it still doesn't work out. When that happens, it is best to make sure the child(ren) are provided for and move on.<br><b>References : </b><br> If your husband got a divorce from the court, there isn’t much you can do. In this country, you don’t have to remain married to someone if you don’t want to. Get yourself a good attorney and make sure that your husband pays child support and your legal fees.

Sometimes after we have done all we can to save a marriage, it still doesn’t work out. When that happens, it is best to make sure the child(ren) are provided for and move on.
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]]> By: waiting for baby http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6252 waiting for baby Thu, 15 Apr 2010 00:28:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6252 than make sure that he takes care of his daugther, make sure that you made him responsible (financially) for you guys but don't beg the man to stay because of the child show your child that you are strong<br><b>References : </b><br> than make sure that he takes care of his daugther, make sure that you made him responsible (financially) for you guys
but don’t beg the man to stay because of the child show your child that you are strong
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]]> By: Javi http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6251 Javi Thu, 15 Apr 2010 00:17:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6251 focus on your child....love her to death as she will suffer the most. Time does heal...and it gets better trust me. Byt the time he is bainging on your door again it will be too late<br><b>References : </b><br> focus on your child….love her to death as she will suffer the most. Time does heal…and it gets better trust me. Byt the time he is bainging on your door again it will be too late
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]]> By: justclicktherubyslippers http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child/comment-page-1#comment-6250 justclicktherubyslippers Thu, 15 Apr 2010 00:09:59 +0000 http://www.stoppainofbreakup.com/blog/save-your-marriage-or-relationship-now/my-husband-got-divorce-order-from-family-court-but-i-want-to-save-my-marriage-i-have-a-girl-child#comment-6250 It takes two people that want the same thing for this to work. You can not, no matter how much you want someone to love you make them feel something they don't feel. It is sad but that is the truth. Talk with him and make sure he is positive he desires to end your marriage. Set yourself free to start a new life without him<br><b>References : </b><br> It takes two people that want the same thing for this to work. You can not, no matter how much you want someone to love you make them feel something they don’t feel. It is sad but that is the truth. Talk with him and make sure he is positive he desires to end your marriage. Set yourself free to start a new life without him
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