my husband got divorce order from family court but i want to save my marriage i have a girl child?
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Oh well? He clearly doesn’t want to.
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you can only fix the marriage if both people want it. divorce does not mean that your child will suffer. do what is best by her and everything should be fine….
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Prayer can make all the difference in the world if you can just believe. It truly worked for me. Best Wishes.
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Apparently he doesn’t want to save the marriage.
So its time for you to move on with your life because he has.
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If he wanted to save the marriage, he would have gotten counseling, not filed for a divorce. You can’t make someone want to be with you. You have to accept the divorce and move on.
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[1] There are many aspects missing in your question.
[2] Whether you were aware about the petition for divorce filed by your husband in family court.
[3] Whether you received any summons from family court with the copy of petition for divorce filed by your husband.
[4] Whether you appeared before family court to contest the petition for divorce filed by your husband.
[5] What were the grounds taken by your husband to claim divorce from you.
[6] Whether you filed any application for maintenance for yourself and for the minor girl
[7] Whether your husband got divorce order from family court in your absence.
[8] Generally, the family court does not grant divorce without giving the other side, an opportunity of being heard.
[9] If the other side fails to remain present before Family Court on the day fixed for filing reply or written statement, the court insists upon the petitioner to publish public notice in the news papers informing the respondent to remain present before the court and file written statement.
[10] In your case, if you were not aware about the divorce petition filed by your husband and the order passed by Family Court in your absence, you have right to file appeal in the High Court to set aside the order passed by the Family Court.
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knowledge
You are late.
Your reason for slvaging is not positve.
Let the guy enjoy his life.
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dont worry for this small problems…. see my wife left me alone taking my kid with her.. if she can dare to grow that kid herself than whereis the problem for you… If you are good than we can plan to marry at later stage….and to tell you the truth I am in a very good organisation but staying alone nowadays….
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hi sonu main tumhari jarur madad karuga per tum ko thoda badlna padega or haan tum mujse ji tarah ki bhi help chaho gi main ker ne ko tayar hu so please inform me
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so sorry but your husbands does not seems to be concerned either with u or ur child.
i am sorry its too late for you the harm has been done,
now you become strong and ask court to provide your child and u with monthly allowance.
and make sure to exercise all ur rights,and don’t fall into any emotional trap of his because when it comes to money men tend to black mail their ex wives or lure for out of the court settlements, if u do so u ll be a fool.
dear pl be practical and mature.
i know it hurts when family breaks but its become very common and at times its better to separate then living a dissatisfying life.
who know what good god has in store for you.
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It takes two people that want the same thing for this to work. You can not, no matter how much you want someone to love you make them feel something they don’t feel. It is sad but that is the truth. Talk with him and make sure he is positive he desires to end your marriage. Set yourself free to start a new life without him
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focus on your child….love her to death as she will suffer the most. Time does heal…and it gets better trust me. Byt the time he is bainging on your door again it will be too late
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than make sure that he takes care of his daugther, make sure that you made him responsible (financially) for you guys
but don’t beg the man to stay because of the child show your child that you are strong
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If your husband got a divorce from the court, there isn’t much you can do. In this country, you don’t have to remain married to someone if you don’t want to. Get yourself a good attorney and make sure that your husband pays child support and your legal fees.
Sometimes after we have done all we can to save a marriage, it still doesn’t work out. When that happens, it is best to make sure the child(ren) are provided for and move on.
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Sounds like wanting to fix this is one sided and all you can do is focus on your child and move on with your life cause it sounds like he has. Good luck to you!
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Been there a long time ago! Now my life couldn’t be better it does get easier!
Show him these"
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a father’s guidance in children’s lives is a major cause of their suffering. “Marriage is the best child welfare, crime prevention, anti-poverty program we have,”
http://www.barnesville.com/archives/266-gem-from-jim-octuplets…..html
Fortune Magazine – Fatherless Families & Crime
“Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless.”
http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune_archive/1992/08/10/76732/index.htm
Stanford University – Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
http://www.stanford.edu/~rmahony/Divorce.html
10 Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Ten-Stupid-Things-Men-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Lives/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780641865411/?itm=8
Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stupid-Things-Parents-Do-to-Mess-Up-Their-Kids/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060933791/?itm=12
Fatherless America : Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem
David Blankenhorn
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Fatherless-America/David-Blankenhorn/e/9780060926830/?itm=1
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Do you want your marriage to work just because you have a daughter? Because that will not make a marriage.
If you love this man and truly want to be his wife because of him and you then talk to him….tell him how you feel. However if you want to make this marriage work just because you have a child it won’t work. Marriage takes commitment, love, trust, respect and work. In order for a marriage to work both parties need to want it to. You can’t force him to love you.
I’m so sorry I know it hurts.
Hang in there I swear you will get though this.
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divorced after 5 years was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through
There are 2 questions you have to ask yourself:
1) Why did your husband do this – what are the reasons he filed for divorce? Is this because of you?
2) What can you do to fix these issues in your relationship and make him stay with you!
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http://winyourhusbandback.wordpress.com/2009/06/03/is-it-possible-to-win-back-a-husband-who-wants-a-divorce/
It is you right to appeal a divorce order. Force him to go to counseling & work out your problems. If not then at least you did what you could.The fault will be on HIM !
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Then you should talk to him about saving the marriage. Do what ever it is to save your marriage.
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