Marriage & Divorce — help me to save my marriage from my wife’s nature….. CONTINUE….4th part?
Well…..I am back after 8 or 9 month……still leaving together with my wife….but looks like it’s going to be ending very soon…..but I don’t want to be happened that…for my kids and for our religious reputations….but how long I can still suffer this……
My wife works from 7 to 3.30 and makes food for us, bringing and feeding my kids in the evening and cleaning after dinner that’s all her daily duty and I also help her in all those work as well as I do all other work alone for example…morning tea/breakfast, bathing both kids, dropping both to school, after dinner I do all things for kids. Means I do all other extra work to give her extra relief but even though she always talking bad about my parents. My parents are in Canada right now but she said why they are not coming here. Everybody knows that she fight with them that’s why they left my home and everybody thinks that that’s good for her and for my parents. Even though she always fighting with me saying that your parents are self-fish, your sister is self-fish, She force me not call my parents and even force me to talk bad when they call me. Every day she said to me that looks in our friends group all parents helping them but not your parents. We fight lot because of those things. I never initiate discussion about my family but some how she started and end up fighting. Even I help her lot she doesn’t care of my help. Looks like she find the way to tight and after that I have to say sorry and get back to her normal mood. She calls my work during her lunch and force me to talk and list ion her and that’s also for long time. If I said I can’t talk more then she started like you don’t like me. I can’t say anything to you etc…Etc…Even if I late by 10 minutes from my work she says why are you late? I said because of traffic…the she said you are also lier like your parents….self-fish like your parents….and then didn’t speak to me whole day and I have to say sorry…..
So looks like what ever she said to me, I have to agree with her. She always insult and torcher me and I keep silence. I am still doing this for my kids but how long…I am scared that if I speak up then I can’t stop…I can say all her bad things that she did to me and my family and I am not sure that what she can do after that….that’s why I am still quiet. She even didn’t talk to her parents, brothers and sisters because everybody knows and told her that it’s purely her mistake…so looks like I am the only person left for her…and I do care about her…but how long this continues???????
Please help…….give your good opinion.
Thanks.
Stop posting here and get yourselves into some kind of counseling! If you guys can’t talk to someone (religious leader, therapist – someone qualified) it doesn’t sound like the marriage will last…
dude, even the Rocky series got tiring after the 3rd one.
give it up.
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It looks like she has a grudge towards your parents, and because you’re their son she kind of has that with you too. Listen parents sometimes can interfere that much to ruin your life, i don’t know how your parents are but wither way, when once you get married you should move out on your own with your wife and kids. Your parents already had their marriage, kids and life now it’s your guys turn to experience that…..Don’t know what to say but your wife seems kind of controlling as well, it’s like she wants to controll you in every kind of way which sucks, and i can see how you feel it’s like you’re being sofocated…Please be patient, if there’s a way to keep your parents away from you guys for some time do so….
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Stop posting here and get yourselves into some kind of counseling! If you guys can’t talk to someone (religious leader, therapist – someone qualified) it doesn’t sound like the marriage will last…
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you need to show her that you are the man!!!!!! you let her walk all over you. so if i were you i would step up and act like a man. you are letting her play games with your head some people are un happy and they and they get pleaser out of making others un happy if you really think staying together for the kids will be better its not they can feel the stress between you two so either man up and take control and tell her she is acting like a child or leave and have peace of mind you have to think of the kids before anything else and do you want them to think that this is what is suppose to happen when you get married then it will be a patten that they might fall it to too good luck
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