Has anyone ever had an affair and had a hard time getting over the person involved?
The affair was emotional and not physical. Did you have a hard time forgetting about the other person? If so how long did it take?
You need to realize what you did was wrong no 2 ways about it, whether it was a physical or emotional affair. Maybe he finally realized he was going down the wrong path and bailed on you because it was leading to the physical part. Why can’t you find someone to get attached to that isn’t married? Are you not worthy?


no, i have never had an affair and never will. i love my man.
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Yes, I haven’t got over them yet.
The main problem is we are still friends – I think if I had completely cut all ties and never seen them again it would have been easier.
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That last forever, Whats hard is not being able to tell them ………….
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The best way to get over a man is to get under another one.
Stop seeing him, don’t contact him, and find someone else to take your mind off him.
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If you had an affair then there’s something wrong with your own relationship. You should seriously think about fixing it or moving on.
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It was physical and emotional and we haven’t had contact in over 2 years but I still find myself wondering about her well being off and on.
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You need to realize what you did was wrong no 2 ways about it, whether it was a physical or emotional affair. Maybe he finally realized he was going down the wrong path and bailed on you because it was leading to the physical part. Why can’t you find someone to get attached to that isn’t married? Are you not worthy?
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yes I have…mine was very emotional, I fell in love with the guy and it has been 20 yrs since the last time I was with him and I still have those feelings for him…I recently seen in in passing and our eyes connected just like they use to. I had a husband and family and had to make a choice, the affair was not intended but just happened.
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