what are the best ways to recover from a break-up? or keep mind off it?vent a little?
i’ve tried running which is ok but what do you think works the best that you’ve tried?
When I went through the toughest break-up I was seriously depressed. I wouldn’t stop crying and I wanted him back so much, but then I thought about it long and hard and figured out I was better off without him.
What I did not to think about it was I bought a load of books and just started reading, then I started writing my own stories and books.
Just do something creative or relaxing. Take up a sport that requires more thought (archery is a good one) Or (might sound weird) but pole dancing, or belly dancing. It really helps you confidence and it works wonders on your body!
I hope this helped
Good luck!
To be honest, I got drunk. A lot. That ended up not being the best idea. Don’t do that. Go hang out with friends or take up a new hobby you were interested in, but never did before.
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I’m still working through one myself – just focus on yourself, running is good, buy yourself something, or take a trip. Surround yourself with friends and family and talk about it… Good luck!
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PARTY, PARTY, PARTY.
Im not saying be a naughty girl.
Just have fun….
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I make certain times when i can think about him, and only for like 10 minutes.
I try not to think about him though..
I also go for like long walks or runs *in the rain is the best (: *
hope i helped. good luck. x
and sorry. (:
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you never think of him tell your friends to not talk about him and get rid of everything that reminds you of him and you will do fine…
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help me with my problem:
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friends and family hang out with them and side Track your feelings
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When I went through the toughest break-up I was seriously depressed. I wouldn’t stop crying and I wanted him back so much, but then I thought about it long and hard and figured out I was better off without him.
What I did not to think about it was I bought a load of books and just started reading, then I started writing my own stories and books.
Just do something creative or relaxing. Take up a sport that requires more thought (archery is a good one) Or (might sound weird) but pole dancing, or belly dancing. It really helps you confidence and it works wonders on your body!
I hope this helped
Good luck!
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eat ice cream =)
try talking to other guys or people to get your mind off them or something keep yourself occupied so you wont have time to think about it
please help with mines?
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time will help. dont listen to the fool that talks about getting drunk. that is only a temp solution. you need to live through it and understand that every relationship will hurt after it ends therefore we should be more wise when choosing our partners.
There is no easy way to recover but continue doing what you are doing, think deeply about it, and as time passes you will become better!
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I vent to my girlfriends.
I play paintball and imagine that every person I shoot is my ex.
I go for along ride on my motorbike.
I sleep.
Read.
Get out and have fun with my friends.
If you just try something a little different every day, it will get better.
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Find a "rebound" and be like rabbits for a week…
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go on a plane and jump go sky diving its the best if u can afford it ;(
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This is mostly girl adivice, since you didn’t specify your gender and you have no icon picture, Sorry if you’re not! But here’s some girl advice..
1) Purchase a notebook, and fill it with all of the good times you had together and all of the bad things, little things matter too. Weigh if you have more good or bad things. Write down the things about him/her that make you mad, or the stupid things they do without thinking. Write down the names of other boys at school and the caring or nice things they’ve said or done to you
2) invite all your friends and have a movie or games night. Plan a small get together or have a spa and sleepover night. Hanging out with your girls is a good way to forget about the breakup and have some fun!
3) find some music that you’ve never really thought much about and download some songs. Listen to them over and over to see which ones you like and which ones you don’t like and the reasons why you didn’t like this genre, and may like it now after you’ve given it a chance. New music really keeps your mind off things.
4)Have a fun night with your mom. Rent a movie or go shopping, or spend some time at the coffee shop. This way you can confide in your mom, and maybe become a bit closer. Your mom will have lots of breakup stories to share because she’s been through this too, no matter how old she seems! It’s nice to relate to an adult that’s close to you because they were your age too.
5) find a sport or activity you really like. Join a club or try out for a sports team to keep your mind off things before you can settle down. Keep yourself busy with new things and experiences. The past is the past, we’re talking about the future!
6) make a list of all the things your ex didn’t like. If it was a certain food or activity, or even music that he wasn’t fond of try it out! You never know if you’ll like it, and it will make yourself feel better to think that you’re doing things that he wouldn’t want to do. As long as you may like the things or they won’t make you uncomfortable, go for it!
7) Don’t try things like making him jealous, or crying for weeks. As much as icecream is yummy it won’t fix anything. Get your emotion out in different ways and try not to notice him at school. If you want to be friends, stay friends sometimes it’s easier than dating. Otherwise just keep your head high, and hang out with your friends. They’re probably glad to be spending more time with you without the boyfriend. Your friends will still be there for you,
xGood luck, and hope I Helped. x
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