SURVEY: Is it important to learn how to control how much you give away while on a date?
For some reason when i tell too much about myself to a date when they ask a question, it’s a turn off..why is that? Is it important to learn how much to give away at what time?
like i’ve given away personal info about rough childhood on a first date..it seems to scare them?
but i mean is it natural or do you guys also think to yourselves…"i shouldn’t tell them this much yet"
yeah because you don’t want to be boring and talk forever about the same thing. but it’s better than having nothing to say, that’s way more awkward.
well, maybe your rough childhood is too much of a serious subject and tends to be a downer on a date that’s supposed to be happy. i personally love hearing about people’s childhoods and wouldn’t mind listening to stories, even if they’re rough, but everyone is different, maybe it’s an uncomfortable thing to listen to for some people.
yeah because you don’t want to be boring and talk forever about the same thing. but it’s better than having nothing to say, that’s way more awkward.
well, maybe your rough childhood is too much of a serious subject and tends to be a downer on a date that’s supposed to be happy. i personally love hearing about people’s childhoods and wouldn’t mind listening to stories, even if they’re rough, but everyone is different, maybe it’s an uncomfortable thing to listen to for some people.
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It’s not a courtroom…think of your conversations as pingpong. You need to be battin’ the ball back her way and learning about her as well, rather than just giving a long monologue about the Life of Whateveryournameis.
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Sometimes less is more. Let someone get to know you better before you share too many details. If you share too much up front and that person doesn’t know you or your personality very well, the things you can tell them may seem odd or may scare them off.
If you give it some time and get to know the person better, then when you share things, it will be easier for them to digest.
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i dont think so, if they cant handle what happened to you then they probably cant handle you
i always tell guys like the 2nd day everything about my childhood, most seem to understand and say its ok, some were like uhmm i guess and they wernt worth it, its my way of weeding out the NO GOOD FOR ME’S and the GOOD FOR ME’S
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it is b/c it makes you sound obnoxious and arrogant… slow down when talkng about yourself and really watch what you say.
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Less is more in this situation, remember that, hey you have to save some for future dates right??
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i do to …or some one ask you how your day and you actualy tell them…
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Look genius! Tell less, learn more….The guy that you’re pouring out your personal life too might use everything you’re saying just to get some booty…..then you’re a used rag… Women please note a man shouldn’t know more about you than you know about him….. You’re personal life is like your booty…private and precious. AND this is coming from a man
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I AM THE SOURCE!