Recover from a break up?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and 20 days.. until yesterday.
He broke up with me and left me stranded.
He practically ripped my heart out and threw it on the floor,
and stomped on it a thousand times.
I just.. want to know how to recover because I can’t stop myself from crying.
I still love him, but I guess he doesn’t love me..
So how do you recover from a break up?
I just want the tears to stop..
Take your mind off the guy. Involve yourself in things that will keep you busy. Now is the time to focus on the things you would like to do but did not have the time to do before. In short, move on.
go out and party and just have fun! forget him if he doesnt want u its his loss not urs! if u still think about him do wat all the people do after a break up, eat ice-cream and stay up late with ur friend! =)
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I am guessing that was your first relationship. Usually it’s hard to handle on 1st break up. I would suggest keeping yourself busy so you do not have the time to think of the break up.
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Take your mind off the guy. Involve yourself in things that will keep you busy. Now is the time to focus on the things you would like to do but did not have the time to do before. In short, move on.
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Go out with your mates and have a laugh, at least he dumped you now before you got married and had kids etc.
Everyone recovers eventually, it just takes time.
He isnt worth your love if he just ups and leaves.
Hold your head up high, love yourself and dont let it get you down.
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Aw I feel so sorry for you! I know its a cliche but time is a great healer. Give it a couple of months at least to properly get over him. Spend lots and lots of time with your girlfriends and family, go shopping, go to the gym, go out for walks. Try and keep busy so you don’t think about him all the time. Trust me, I know it feels like hell just now and it feels like things will never get better but they will! You need to try and forget about him, keep busy and don’t try and call him to make him change his mind. If he realises he has made a mistake he will get in touch with you. If you try and call him it makes you look desperate and makes it alot harder to move on.
Learn from this relationship, your next one will be a million times better and with someone who deserves you and will treat you right.
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never do stupid advice as above (alex) just keep your day busy, keep doing one or the other thing do not watch to much of television, direct u r mind on some other thing (studies, hobbies, some or classes)
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the easyest way is to just get with someone else it helps get you mind off things it probly won’t last but it won’t hurt as much when it’s over it knowen as a rebound if you cute i’ll be your rebound
but honestly it dose help to go out with some one it don’t have to be sex but just spending time with some one will help good luck
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U cant do anything u just need x ! I once lost a guy i really loved, without him actually breaking up with me we were just not meant to be, he used to work a t a hotel we went to visit often, and they closed it! I was really upset for quite a while maybe 1 month and a half, and i gave up on love, but then 2 months later i couldn’t help falling in love who was trying to get with me & now im actually happier than before even though he lives across the world i still love him !
Love Comes when u least expect it, but ur gnnna stay upset for a while !
Tc Xx
I kno the world seems to b over, but everything, but ur beter of without him ! & things well get better soon!=D I promiseXD
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Cry your heart out baby…and accept the truth..Please do not be in denial. It’s really nice to have a friend that who can be with you in times like this..But anyway, its his loss not yours right? Just go out and have fun!!!! It’s really cool to be single..
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sorry to hear about the pain that you are going through. i never knew what it felt like till it happened to me. a few things helped me get over it but it did take time and still hurts today 3 yrs later. firstly focus on friends and family!! try new things, spend time with the people in your lilfe you can trust and rely on. the worst thing you could do would be to jump into anoyther relationship before recovering fully from this one. in time you need to be able to say a few things about the time you had together. firstly that you are thankfull for what you had and learnt. secondly, truely in your heart, forgive them for all they have done and in return ask for forgivness for all that you have done. this can be vocal or written.
try and keep busy. a good cry is always good, A BIT OF SELF PITY NEVER HURT ANYONE, BUT IF YOU LINGER ON THAT TOO MUCH IT WILL NEVER ALLOW THE WOUND TO HEAL PROPERLY WITHOUT LEAVING A SCAR.
it will be on your mind 24hrs a day 7 days a week. but as time goes on you’ll start having new experiances that detract you from the pain. i wrote i small letter to my ex (60 pages) everytime i was upset or had something i needed to say to her, without actually saying it to her. keep this letter as an ongoing account of your feelings and experiance and you will see that over time the pain turns into learning and eventually thanks. but that will take time.
one thing that i am trying to put accross to you is do not bottle the whole relationship up and pretend this never happened. at first this may be the only way to keep from crying but i think that eventually the pain does need to be addressed and never, no matter what allow yourself to feel that this is never going to get better. i promise you in time it will!!! best of luck!
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Hi Song Y,
Why are you crying & wasting your tears? I know that is hard to stop the tears when you think about your past. What i can tell you is you must take a challenge & forget about it, If you can’t at the end you will be the looser. I have a experience about it, Because i had a boyfreind he only expressed his love & forced me to love him at last i felt love with him, He was a honnest & good person,his parents got to know about it & they charmed him to change his mind. What can we do? slowly he has changed his habbits, Every time he insulted me, Now he is in abroad but he has got all the bad habbits.
I cried & cried for about 5 years. At last i lost my weight & the pretty. Now almost 8 years past. what can we do? Be challenge, show your tallents. THINK here after i never cry for him unless he cry for you. He must think that he missed you a lot
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