I need closure to move on with my life?
I saw a guy on and off for awhile – just a fun thing but somewhere along the way I fell for him. It has been three years and I have since met someone else which I know he isnt happy with and he wont speak to me. I need to resolve my issues and feelings but I dont want to harass him. He told me to get out of his life or he would have me up for stalking. If I go to his place of work – he works alone after all this time could he accuse me of this. It isnt like I am on his doorstep, ringing him up etc. which I thought constituted stalking.
You need to let him be, let him move on with his life. He is trying to deal with losing you, and you have to leave him alone.
You need to let him be, let him move on with his life. He is trying to deal with losing you, and you have to leave him alone.
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I think stalking is constant unwanted attention. If you need closure, then contacting him once more to say your peace shouldnt constitude this.
He hasnt been talking to you as you think he is angry, HAVE you been trying to contact him? You obviously need to do something.
i have to say the best bet would be to put everything in writing. Write how you feel, what you need the conclusion and closure to be. Then depending on what you want, you could either burn it and end it there, or send it to him with a note at the bottom to say’ you lost me and i will never see you again, everything is finished’.
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If he’s told you to leave him alone, that’s all the closure you need. He is obviously freaked out by your attention so just leave him be and move on.
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