i am afraid of being hurt again any advice?
first off i been getting to know this guy that i really like but i feel i am into him more then he is me.i have been more hurt in relationships then i can count because i hand over my heart to fast and i always end up hurt.
i feel avoided now by him because he is barely speaking to me and when he does he always has an excuse as to why he has to go.i want to get to know him and maybe more but i dont think the feeling is mutual by his actions.i am just afraid that i will get burned again.any advice please? thank you
I know how you feel cuz i told this guy i like him and gave him my number and this is now 5 weeks and he hasent called me and i feel real bad and sad cuz we go to skool together and he doesnt speak to me much anymore…so i know how you feel.
What i usually tell MYSELF is to follow my heart and if i think its for me then go for it but if not let God do the rest.
I gte hurt too much anddont wanna go through that anymore.
Good luck to you and take care!
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If you are afraid to get hurt, then don’t put your guard down. However, if you really wish to find love, you must understand that you WILL get hurt.
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The problem is you keep looking for love and when you do that you are most likely going to fall into any relationship because its seems like that’s the one. You need to take time out for yourself just have friends and don’t concentrate on finding someone let love come to you. Im not saying it happens that way for everyone but majority of the time when you stop looking it sneaks up behind you just make sure you are truly ready heal yourself first.
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be stronger then the boy. boys love to play with girls mind. don’t let him bother you, look above him. focus on more things, like your school, or job, your girlfriends, your family. see those as your core things, and then boys as a little extra. dont let him own you.
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You will drive yourself nuts, trying to second guess what somebody is feeling toward you. Life is too short, come right out and ask. lol.
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my mother always told me ” burnt children dread fire. ” just give yourself time, what you’re feeling is normal but like the old saying goes, it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. you’ll be fine just don’t be consumed by fear, that has its own consequences as well.
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Hi Dream I think you partially answered your own question no man likes feeling smothered. They are not like women a clear sign a man doest want to be bothered is when he avoids or doesn’t speak to u! Its time to stop sabotaging your relationships by letting your heart and feeling go so quickly that can frighten the crap out of a guy leave things alone for now if he calls you back great if not even better besides as fast as you fall for guys chances are you will be married if he takes to long.
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Leave First, there are more better qualified men out there for you.
It’s the cycle of life, you will be hurt many times. Even after you meet and Marry Your ‘Soul-mate’, he will at some point and time hurt you several times during your long life as a couple.
All you can do is pick up he pieces and go home
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Gold Dust Woman by Fleetwood Mac
Link:http://www.lyricsfreak.com/f/fleetwood+mac/gold+dust+woman_20054353.html
Don’t be consumed by this guy…let whatever is going to happen, happen…don’t come off as needy, cuz your not…
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I know how you feel cuz i told this guy i like him and gave him my number and this is now 5 weeks and he hasent called me and i feel real bad and sad cuz we go to skool together and he doesnt speak to me much anymore…so i know how you feel.
What i usually tell MYSELF is to follow my heart and if i think its for me then go for it but if not let God do the rest.
I gte hurt too much anddont wanna go through that anymore.
Good luck to you and take care!
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Guys are affected by break-ups too.
I know because I am still getting over a woman I used to really have the hots for.
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