How to recover from a break up that really hurt?
I just broke up with my bf recently. We have been together for almost 5 years. But, now he doesnt love me anymore. I am extremely hurt. I dont know what to do and how to recover.
I agree with the first answer…Now is time for you to move on with your life…My advice is to get out with some friends and or make new friends and have fun..Trust me, your BF is not sitting at home thinking about you!!! Before you know you will have a new BF in your life…Just take your time.
Time heals all wounds….as unlikely as it seems now, you will survive and will probably be better off in the long run. Put away anything he gave you so you don’t sit around thinking about him all the time.
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My own recent breakup.
The only thing that helps is time. It’s a killer. But you’ll get through it. Keeping yourself busy does help. Also, looking at the new possibilities in your life. Even if you loved your boyfriend, breaking up has opened your life up to the potential of meeting someone else who might be better for you, who you might be happier with.
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Well breaking up is never easy. But since he has left you and doesn’t love you .Move on , date other people keep your self distracted with new stuff or classes and hobbies .There are other fishes in the ocean and bigger and better ones .Wink remember we are break up its not only you!!! Start afresh love
waan be my galfriend wink wink ?
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many light relations in the same time for at least one year
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Well this can be touph because he loved you for so long.something I would do is talk to close friends family and no matter what do not hurt yourself because it is totally not worth it. you should probably go out for coffee with some friends and if you want to forget about it put all the thing of him you have away in a box and just hang out with friends to try to forget about him
I wish you the Best of Luck
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I have been there, now I’m going through it let me share what I did. Well, I said to myself, If he wants to go let him go maybe we did not really belong together. If she can’t respect and love a person like me any more he simple DON’T HAVE ANY AMBITION. Why worry about a think as that. He ain’t all that.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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I agree with the first answer…Now is time for you to move on with your life…My advice is to get out with some friends and or make new friends and have fun..Trust me, your BF is not sitting at home thinking about you!!! Before you know you will have a new BF in your life…Just take your time.
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dont worry.there r still fish in the big ocean not the pond that just makes it seem like a low percentage of guys on earth.u will find the one true love that will enter into ur life.sometimes lot of relationships doesnt go well as us girls hoped.but we should be proud of wat we have and we will have in the future.”we are young,heart ache to heart ache,we stand!”we are very strong women we just dont kno it if we dont put our chins up high and realize that we are living life,not buried alive over the most deadliess relationship that we had.stop looking so hard for love,u will see love right b4 ur eyes.u were just looking not really seein wat was going to happen.but keep ur head up high,we will have some sad dayz now,but u will have a bright day,with a smile on ur face!
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Oooh you must be feeling very fragile now. I guess your’e gonna have to do alot of crying to relieve that pain cause it make no sense cooping it up inside. Talk to a close friend about how you feel, you may need a shoulder to cry on. Take comfort in knowing that you will not always feel this way, but for now it’s gonna take time for this pain to wane. You could try to get out more maybe go for occasional walks to help clear your thoughts, parties, special occasions etc.
Find a hobby you enjoy and engage yourself in it. You could also consider the possibility that he may hav moved on and ask yourself if it’s really worth stressing over him when he’s clearly not interested in you anymore.
Focus more on you and do wat’s best for you because you have to live your life no one else can do that for you. In time you’ll be able to pick up and move on but for now u need to work on rebuilding your self confidence as well as your strength which all this pain has sapped from you.
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I’ve found that the best way to recover from a break up is to give it time. I had a friend recently who went through a break up and there wasn’t anything really that could be done except wait. Talking to Friends also seems to help.
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