how to recover from a break up?
ok, we were together for 8 months and during those 8 months we had broken up 4 times… and she decided to break up those 4 times, the 3 time really hurt and the last one is kicking in and by kicking in i mean that music, smells, places ect. remind me of her… what can i do to ease the pain a little? help me!
the best thing to do is try your best not to think about her. that sounds silly i know, because EVERYTHING around you reminds you of her.
maybe instead of listening to country music which maybe she loved, you could try listening to rock music for a change. or getting out and hanging with your guy friends, and trying to warm up to a new girl.
she kept hurting you it seems, so it might be best to push her out of your mind and don’t let her know you miss her. Act like you’re having the time of your life without her.
You won’t get over her in a day. Like i told my friend who was with this one boy on and off for 2 years….. it gets easier and easier everyday. Just take it one day at a time. Before you know it, you won’t even remember why you made such a big deal about what’s-his-name. (or in your case what’s-her-name).
good luck and stay strong 
the best thing to do is try your best not to think about her. that sounds silly i know, because EVERYTHING around you reminds you of her.
maybe instead of listening to country music which maybe she loved, you could try listening to rock music for a change. or getting out and hanging with your guy friends, and trying to warm up to a new girl.
she kept hurting you it seems, so it might be best to push her out of your mind and don’t let her know you miss her. Act like you’re having the time of your life without her.
You won’t get over her in a day. Like i told my friend who was with this one boy on and off for 2 years….. it gets easier and easier everyday. Just take it one day at a time. Before you know it, you won’t even remember why you made such a big deal about what’s-his-name. (or in your case what’s-her-name).
good luck and stay strong
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experience
cheer up and go to new places with a bunch of friends. visit suburbs, parks, restaurants you have never been to before and make new memories….
And 8 months is nothing, wait until you’ve been together for 7 years, my poor friend found out her partner was cheating on her and her whole world has fallen apart to the point where she gives up…. poor thing….
Hope everything works out!!!
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switch it all up!!!
go to different places… listen to newer music that isn’t shred by you both… you’ll get by with a little help from your friends too…
time heals ALLLLLL wounds – no matter how deep.
I know this from experience :]
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