how long does it take to recover from a break up?

I guess it is normal to think of the ex after break up, but how long can you tolerate that? Like, if he still keep telling you bout how she cheated on him, and showing you her emails and his emails to her……………… =’(

i think it has to do with the person and how close you were to that person.

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11 Responses to “how long does it take to recover from a break up?”

  1. brownies says:

    harder to move on if you’re still talking to that person. cut off all contacts with him/her
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  2. SkiDude says:

    i think it has to do with the person and how close you were to that person.
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  3. Blissie says:

    the best thing to do is go out with your friends and have a laugh!!!!
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  4. kayla says:

    Depends on the people. It could take a few days, or a few months. Sometimes people never get over their exes.
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  5. Jew4Messiah says:

    hug to you.
    relax and let time heal your heart, by staying open to his abuse you only make the wounds worse.

    live and learn and let Jesus comfort your precious heart.

    ~

    David in Jesus amazing grace John chapters 3-6 (and especially John 10 about the more abundant life once born again repented of sin, and letting Jesus in.
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  6. Weapon S says:

    I was led on by a girl I am devestated now…
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  7. ellis_kk says:

    depends on the person, how close they were to the other, how long they were together, how much they meant to each other, how it ended etc.
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  8. brian says:

    It could take years or it could hurt forever. It could only take a few weeks. It could only take until the right person comes along. No one is perfect, everyone has some problem, some people just have more problems than others
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  9. awholenothalevel says:

    I’m assuming from your question…that your boyfriend is still upset about his ex girl friend? He needs to stop reading the emails and looking at photos etc, and he should NOT still be talking to her. You need to let him know that you are there now and he’s in a better place now…sometimes we get hurt but it’s how you deal with it that makes us better.
    I’ve been through this and still am – if it doesn’t get better or he starts taking his past out on you….then it’s time to walk away.
    Do not entertain his past…when he wants to show you emails, etc….simply tell him your not interested in his past…but his future (with you). Either he will get on board…or like I said…you need to keep moving forward.
    I feel your pain girl.
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  10. Amber says:

    its gonna be hard but only time will heal… i’ve had the same problem but not the cheating issue, just don’t really talk to him like say hi.. but kinda mind your own business and try to keep your eyes on someone else that u like flirting with. then once u know it the ex will be off your mind but eveyonce in a while the ex will come back into your mind. but u just got to stay strong.
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  11. mila d says:

    he is never going to get over her if he never start moving on. there is a good saying that acceptance is the first step to recovery. he must accept the pain he gained from that failed relationship, and learn a good lesson from it. i beleive that a relationship is like a game, win or lose. it’s natural that we keep on looking until we find the right one for us….you can ask him to stop talking about his ex and start concentrating on what he have now. life is short and its a waste if he’ll spend most of it fretting. over an ex. but if he will keep going on like this, you will be the loser in the end.
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