Don’t want to hurt again and afraid to fall in love?
This man and I have been talking for some time now and we are really getting to know each other. We have made it clear we like each other. We have talked about being exclusive in the past week but want to get to know each other better. I feel like not talking to him in fear of him rejecting me. When we are together I feel like he adores me because of the way he looks at me and treats me. How do I prevent myself from being hurt and how do I know he is sincere?
What you guys fear is what you are going to attract.
SERIOUSLY….so if it feels right don’t question it.
Don’t make this person walk into a relationship and make them carry the baggage of the past.
Take a deep breath and take a chance.
im in the same boat as you. ive been hurt so many times im afraid to date anyone again because i KNOW im going to get hurt again. but i guess in the end it will be worth it because everyone has to get hurt a few times to know what love feels like in the end for that special one.
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In all honesty, the only guy who deserves to be in my life is the one who fights to put and keep himself there. I was the same way and I pushed away a guy, he came back and proved his sincerity. If you can spit and kick at a guy and he’s still there, that’s your guy (unless he’s just a crazy stalker freak). Only time and your own judgement will help you figure out whether or not he is sincere. Uh, good luck.
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You can’t prevent yourself from running the risk of getting hurt. LOVE HURTS. It’s just how it goes. As for knowing if he is sincere, trust him. No relationship is worth a grain of salt if you don’t trust one another and yourselves. Life is just to short to pass up an opportunity at happiness, live like there’s no tomorrow to live the fullest.
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What you guys fear is what you are going to attract.
SERIOUSLY….so if it feels right don’t question it.
Don’t make this person walk into a relationship and make them carry the baggage of the past.
Take a deep breath and take a chance.
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Your questions while valid can only be answered by him.Although I can understand the hurt and pain you feel as a result of your past romance and even becoming gun-shy, you just have to trust.If you have not already done it I would suggest that you sit your guy down, tell him about the broken romance, how you were hurt and are now gun-shy, how sometimes you are afraid of being rejected by him though you know he adores you,and loves you.By the end of that conversation, if he loves you, he would have done everything in his power to calm you and allay some of your fears. There is no fool proof way to ascertain if any one is sincere,it is a matter of trust.—you either trust and believe or you do not.I hope it works out for the both of you and you can have a good romance.
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