Do singles have luck finding love online?
Well, looks like I am (will be) single very soon. I heard of people going online to yahoo personals and other sites and meeting people, even marrying somebody they find online. What is your opinion on dating people off the internet?
I have to admit that I disagree with Rake on a few issues…first of all, he addresses that WOMEN need to be honest about their physical appearances, etc., but I think MEN need to too! Many of the older guys lie about their age, or use pictures of themselves from the 80’s or 90’s when they were young studs…or the bald guys tend to wear ball caps in their pics.
But here’s the thing I think about–I think its a great way for busy professionals who are looking for someone to date (or possibly marry if that’s what they are looking for) and you can "look" when its convenient for you, you don’t have to hang out at smokey bars, etc., and I do think that you should go into with an open mind that if nothing less, you could end up with a friend. Expecting "Mr. Right" will only lead you to disappointment. Keep your mind and heart open…what have you got to lose? And what if it was destiny that you were suppose to meet someone online…so just take the chance!
If there is one thing I’ve learned about life, its that NOTHING is guaranteed!
It’s just one other way to meet people. If you don’t like the club scene and hate bars, it’s an okay way to meet people. The biggest problem is that people LIE. Men lie about their jobs (and their marital status), women lie about their age. NEVER meet anyone unless you’ve seen a LOT of pictures first–if they’re afraid to send pictures, that’s a bad sign. Also, pictures of just the face, particularly taken from a higher angle, are always suspect.
I hate to sound shallow–but let’s face it. In romantic relationships, you have to find someone physically attractive first. Otherwise, what you have is really a friendship. And presumably you’re not going online to find friends….
My suggestion, especially for women, is be totally honest. Find recent pictures that show you as you really are. Tell the truth about your age. Use headshots and body shots. And remember that if you are asked on the site to describe your body type "curvy" is NOT a euphemism for "fat." Be as honest as you can, and you won’t wind up wasting your time or anyone else’s….As a rule of thumb, I can pretty much guarantee that someone isn’t going to overlook the physical attraction part just because you happen to be a nice person. Would you?
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I have to admit that I disagree with Rake on a few issues…first of all, he addresses that WOMEN need to be honest about their physical appearances, etc., but I think MEN need to too! Many of the older guys lie about their age, or use pictures of themselves from the 80’s or 90’s when they were young studs…or the bald guys tend to wear ball caps in their pics.
But here’s the thing I think about–I think its a great way for busy professionals who are looking for someone to date (or possibly marry if that’s what they are looking for) and you can "look" when its convenient for you, you don’t have to hang out at smokey bars, etc., and I do think that you should go into with an open mind that if nothing less, you could end up with a friend. Expecting "Mr. Right" will only lead you to disappointment. Keep your mind and heart open…what have you got to lose? And what if it was destiny that you were suppose to meet someone online…so just take the chance!
If there is one thing I’ve learned about life, its that NOTHING is guaranteed!
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My boss is really into the internet dating thing. But has had no success over the 5 years i’ve known him. BUT, i think that is his own fault.
The problems i’ve seen is that you build up this perfect picture of the person you are talking to. While you are talking over the net and phone you make them into what you want them to be. Then you meet them and you are dissapointed when they aren’t what you imagined. (well my boss has been anyway)
My mums friend met her now partner online, they are so happy together. My sister in laws uncle found his gf through the local paper adverts.
So it’s definitely possible!! My opinion is if it helps you to find someone and be happy then it can’t be all that bad.
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Two of my friends have tried but have not had any luck. The guys that contact them are weird.
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Hi
Personally from my experience dating on line is a total waste of time a lot of people who register on dating sites are after getting entry into your country,and a lot of them don’t even use there own pictures,and make up false details and locations,you are probably a good looking woman so you will meet a decent man eventually.
Good luck and have a good christmas
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It’s just another way to meet people. It’s fun to talk to people online.
I meet my husband online (match.com). But be very careful, there are crazy people out there, make sure if you find someone you want to meet offline to meet in a public place or with a friend.
Good luck with dating again.
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