After a break up, how do you have a good closure?
My gf and I have been together for three years straight, then off and on for anther two years. She’s my first gf and the only girl I loved like this (so far). Though I had other gf’s during our two year on and off relationships, I always break up with the others whenever she wants to get back again. Recently we broke up again because she said she was tired of me (again). I love her still, but I don’t want to hurt anymore. I got some advice and my friends told me that what we need is a formal closure. How do you do that? What happens in a closure? Does that really help? How do you do a closure?
If you really love her then honestly you might not ever have a proper "closure". If you love her in your heart that much then probably she will always in some way be a part of your life, whether you are together with her or not. I am a lot older than you I would say from yr pic, but I had a thing like this and everyone thought and I thought that I should get over it. I would just say don’t hope too much for a "closure" because that is not exactly how it is. Just move on with your life. I did a lot to try to achieve a "closure" but it really just made me a horrible and sad person. You can’t say that person never happened in your life, just be glad for the good times you had and hopefully it will get better. Take care and laugh when you can. lol.
You go to her house and when she opens the door you grab it and SLAM it shut in your face.
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If you really love her then honestly you might not ever have a proper "closure". If you love her in your heart that much then probably she will always in some way be a part of your life, whether you are together with her or not. I am a lot older than you I would say from yr pic, but I had a thing like this and everyone thought and I thought that I should get over it. I would just say don’t hope too much for a "closure" because that is not exactly how it is. Just move on with your life. I did a lot to try to achieve a "closure" but it really just made me a horrible and sad person. You can’t say that person never happened in your life, just be glad for the good times you had and hopefully it will get better. Take care and laugh when you can. lol.
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Write a letter to her and state everything you feel and then say that it is over for the both of you and then accept that it is over and move on.
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