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		<title>By: Desipm</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to: http://www.exbackguides.com/&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!<br />
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.<br />
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to: <a href="http://www.exbackguides.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.exbackguides.com/</a><br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: LittlE JohN</title>

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		<dc:creator>LittlE JohN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Friend:

This might help you:
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Realationship is a building of Friendship. If you want to have a Great Realationship First You have to Give Strenght To your Friendship For your building to have Great Strenght in the base.
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So, you are smart to want to start your new Realationship with a Friendship.
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As Simple As It Can Be:
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Go to him and tell him that you can not bare to be with out him and you will change for him becoz you loved the patience that he used on you and since he was so Special for you you want to be for him as  well. However, tell him you undrestand that he dose not want to be with you but you care about him so much that you are ready to sacrefice yourself by waiting for him to change his mind.
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Attention:
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We Have 2 kind of Patient Ppl:
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1- They are players. ( they only think about themselves which in his case he might be looking for sex )

2- They are Romantic Ppl Who have no hope in life.
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So be Very Carefull!!!!
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Becarefull who are you changing for i do not know the guy but believe me if he did not give you a chance OR made you beg more he might be a player.
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Because, Realationship is also a Game and in games there always is someone with the power. This power is really important in a realationship. it can change LIVES. 
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Good Luck &amp; Believe in yourself

little john&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Friend:</p>
<p>This might help you:<br />
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Realationship is a building of Friendship. If you want to have a Great Realationship First You have to Give Strenght To your Friendship For your building to have Great Strenght in the base.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
So, you are smart to want to start your new Realationship with a Friendship.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
As Simple As It Can Be:<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
Go to him and tell him that you can not bare to be with out him and you will change for him becoz you loved the patience that he used on you and since he was so Special for you you want to be for him as  well. However, tell him you undrestand that he dose not want to be with you but you care about him so much that you are ready to sacrefice yourself by waiting for him to change his mind.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br />
Attention:<br />
===<br />
We Have 2 kind of Patient Ppl:<br />
===<br />
1- They are players. ( they only think about themselves which in his case he might be looking for sex )</p>
<p>2- They are Romantic Ppl Who have no hope in life.<br />
====<br />
So be Very Carefull!!!!<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br />
Becarefull who are you changing for i do not know the guy but believe me if he did not give you a chance OR made you beg more he might be a player.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br />
Because, Realationship is also a Game and in games there always is someone with the power. This power is really important in a realationship. it can change LIVES.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
Good Luck &amp; Believe in yourself</p>
<p>little john<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: sweetlilyfaery</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your best bet would be to try and restore the friendship first if you can.  How to do that would be to tell him exactly what you&#039;re trying to do.  Explain to him that you know you were being a total weirdo. (LOL!) Let him know that you&#039;d like to try and start over and see if you can start with friendship.  His problem with you (it seems) is that you wouldn&#039;t open up t him and tell him what you were really feeling, now is your chance and see what happens.  It will be his decision in the end but maybe if you put a little of yourself out there and a little more and a little more then maybe it will all work out the way you want.
Most important though, you cannot be mad at him if he chooses not to do one or the other or both.  You&#039;re gonna have to suck it up and not push away because you handling it in an appropriate manner might make him change his mind down the road.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sweetlilyfaery (Me, Myself and I). Take it or leave it, hopefully it helps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your best bet would be to try and restore the friendship first if you can.  How to do that would be to tell him exactly what you&#8217;re trying to do.  Explain to him that you know you were being a total weirdo. (LOL!) Let him know that you&#8217;d like to try and start over and see if you can start with friendship.  His problem with you (it seems) is that you wouldn&#8217;t open up t him and tell him what you were really feeling, now is your chance and see what happens.  It will be his decision in the end but maybe if you put a little of yourself out there and a little more and a little more then maybe it will all work out the way you want.<br />
Most important though, you cannot be mad at him if he chooses not to do one or the other or both.  You&#8217;re gonna have to suck it up and not push away because you handling it in an appropriate manner might make him change his mind down the road.<br /><b>References : </b><br />Sweetlilyfaery (Me, Myself and I). Take it or leave it, hopefully it helps.</p>
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		<dc:creator>guess who...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dude. I trained my goldfish to talk. Isn&#039;t that awesome? I know, right. I knew you&#039;d think that was awesome. Do you have a goldfish? They&#039;re cool huh? If you don&#039;t have one, you should get one. Mine&#039;s name is Stan. I have a friend that has a goldfish. Sometimes when she comes over, she brings her goldfish and they have playdates. They&#039;re friends too. Doesn&#039;t the color gold just look so good on them? They don&#039;t even cost that much. All you have to do is feed them, and put them in water. And the best part is that they can&#039;t drown. Oh my god, one time, when I was little, I had a goldfish. It died. I was crying. We had to flush it down the toilet. And then I got another goldfish. I won him at the fair. Guess what his name was? His name was Fishy! He died too, just in case you were wondering.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dude. I trained my goldfish to talk. Isn&#8217;t that awesome? I know, right. I knew you&#8217;d think that was awesome. Do you have a goldfish? They&#8217;re cool huh? If you don&#8217;t have one, you should get one. Mine&#8217;s name is Stan. I have a friend that has a goldfish. Sometimes when she comes over, she brings her goldfish and they have playdates. They&#8217;re friends too. Doesn&#8217;t the color gold just look so good on them? They don&#8217;t even cost that much. All you have to do is feed them, and put them in water. And the best part is that they can&#8217;t drown. Oh my god, one time, when I was little, I had a goldfish. It died. I was crying. We had to flush it down the toilet. And then I got another goldfish. I won him at the fair. Guess what his name was? His name was Fishy! He died too, just in case you were wondering.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: BlueX273</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not an expert but, according to your story, 1st, you should try to stop being shy and aggressive. 2nd, try apologizing to the guy. And finally, if all else fails, just forget about the guy; there are many more chances for you, especially for your age. Hope this helped...&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not an expert but, according to your story, 1st, you should try to stop being shy and aggressive. 2nd, try apologizing to the guy. And finally, if all else fails, just forget about the guy; there are many more chances for you, especially for your age. Hope this helped&#8230;<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Trozz</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 20:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a guy with experience with &#039;shy&#039; girls. I&#039;ve found the ones that just talk to me about it are the ones I stick around for. 
You don&#039;t need to whine to him and blame it all on your shyness, but just asking him to talk at a quiet but not intament place should work. Basically just sit him down and tell him that you are shy but have other things to offer and will continue to grow more &#039;confident.&#039; And if he is willing to get back together with you act like you promised. Make efforts to be more confident around him and show him your trueself, don&#039;t just say it mean it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a guy with experience with &#8217;shy&#8217; girls. I&#8217;ve found the ones that just talk to me about it are the ones I stick around for.<br />
You don&#8217;t need to whine to him and blame it all on your shyness, but just asking him to talk at a quiet but not intament place should work. Basically just sit him down and tell him that you are shy but have other things to offer and will continue to grow more &#8216;confident.&#8217; And if he is willing to get back together with you act like you promised. Make efforts to be more confident around him and show him your trueself, don&#8217;t just say it mean it.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Robert B</title>

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		<dc:creator>Robert B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 20:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Write him a letter explaining what you have just told a few thousand other people.  It&#039;s worth a try.  Unless you tell him you will never know if this relationship has any chance of reigniting.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Write him a letter explaining what you have just told a few thousand other people.  It&#8217;s worth a try.  Unless you tell him you will never know if this relationship has any chance of reigniting.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: skipitybeebop</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 20:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dont know but if he really doesn&#039;t have feelings for you anymore than... well... there are plenty of more fish in the sea&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dont know but if he really doesn&#8217;t have feelings for you anymore than&#8230; well&#8230; there are plenty of more fish in the sea<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Footprints in the Sand</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 20:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Read the books:

*Act like a Lady - Think like a Man
*He is just not into you
*It&#039;s called a Break-up because it&#039;s Broken

and it could help you.

Good luck.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Read the books:</p>
<p>*Act like a Lady &#8211; Think like a Man<br />
*He is just not into you<br />
*It&#8217;s called a Break-up because it&#8217;s Broken</p>
<p>and it could help you.</p>
<p>Good luck.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Stups</title>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 19:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All above answers are Great! Or just tell him what you just spent 20 minutes typing out =P&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All above answers are Great! Or just tell him what you just spent 20 minutes typing out =P<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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