What was the hardest part of being alone after your long term relationship breakup?
What was the hardest part of being alone after your long term relationship breakup? My fiancee left me in June, and to this day I still have not been given a reason why. I am in therapy, but still find it hard to cope. What are the hardest things for you to get over? Do you miss the late night phone calls or companionship?
Not knowing what comes next. For me that’s the hardest, the unanswered future. Will I be ok? will she be ok?
Sorry to hear you are still wondering why your relationship ended. I’m sure that’s tough to deal with!
I am not alone but I would miss the empty bed most of all.
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Oh hell I threw a party. I was alone my whole marriage so I was used to it. You had no closure, so you will be like this until you do get it.
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I too had a fiance leave me right before the wedding. He never spoke to me again. Quite bizarre.
The hardest part for me was not knowing what the heck happened. That, and I missed having someone who really knew me.
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hardest part of being alone after break up for me was trying to remember the name of girl i was waking up to every morning.
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I would say it’s finding stuff to do in the evenings, you can’t go out every night.
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One of the hardest things is trying to figure out WHY?????????? What is wrong with me that they don’t want to be with me?? Then there is the loneliness. You have to get out and not give yourself too much time to think and dwell on it.
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In my case not being given a reason why. Being alone is the hardest part. Life is hard to enjoy when you are by yourself. Sleeping alone is tough also and yes I do miss the late night companionship. What the hell it just sucks and I mean sucks.
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I miss having someone to cook for. I hate cooking for one!
I missed the sex ( only when I wanted it) lol (greedy? some say yes, some no). and I miss the Honey I’m Home!!
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Honeyyyyyyyyyyyyy,,,,,,just look at your self in the mirror,,,,ask your self,,,,do you like what you see?,,,,,,,what am I missing? when you realize that you are wonderfully ok then move on….You have not lost anything he did. Next time you happen to run into him,,,,,kiss him and thank him…….why on god good earth would you want to be with a guy that just walks away no explanation what so ever? and for missing the late phone calls and companionship,,,,,,,,,just get busy and be happy,,,,find lots of things to do so when you get home you are so tired you will not think of any one but your good bed. Good Luck
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:s i miss his calls, miss all of him :s but life keeps on going
u will find someone else that will make u happy :p
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After 3 yrs he broke it off . I lived alone for 5 yrs. I can honestly say best time of my life..Went out with good friends . I missed him some what but not enough to put my life on hold.
If you have good friends you can go out have fun that’s probably the best therapy you can get. It worked for me and free of charge too
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Not knowing what comes next. For me that’s the hardest, the unanswered future. Will I be ok? will she be ok?
Sorry to hear you are still wondering why your relationship ended. I’m sure that’s tough to deal with!
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it was hard to look around the empty quiet house, the memories it held, and knowing it was indeed over with forever, no chance for reconciliation, all the dreams were gone, the future is gone, and even the past. because u can no longer trust or believe that this person ever loved u at all. because they weren’t at all who u thought u knew beyond a doubt. it was hard looking at the bed, and waking up to just yourself.
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The hardest part is knowing that they have moved on so easily with someone else, and you are still wondering why and hurting day and night and missing them so badly that you cannot possibly go out with anyone else.
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I’ve been experiencing it since October of 2006.
What did I miss the most when i split?
My cats really Oh yes and having dinner together Always disliked eating alone, but then again in a way it was better My ex scoffed down his food reading or trying to have an argument with me and then went to the computer to w*ank
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You’re in therapy because you won’t stop thinking about it long enough to enjoy the little things in life. You’re doing it to yourself.
There is no closure until you just let it go. It’s over, think about something else. It’s not important anymore.
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The hardest thing is to realize that "normal", "marriage" and the "fairy tale" life everyone talks about is a lie!!!! What you have to do now is work on your inner peace and learn how to achieve it. Stop lying to yourself. She is gone. All I can promise you is that after time the pain and sadness go away and you will be happy again. This is a lesson and a test. Learn your lesson and the next time you meet someone remember your lessons.
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I would say it is having someone there to hold me when I had a bad day at work.Trying not to think of your ex.It sucks alot of pain.
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The empty home. Hardest part is getting used to that… ugh i hated it when it happened to me
Before you know it, you will be over it. Hang in there.
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just about everything about him! he was my one true and great love,most of my first times happened with him,he fathers all four of my kids. i kinda used to of having him around,doing stuffs like me like preparing the clothes im gonna wear for work the following day. im used to having someone whispering sweet nothings,used to get i love yous at any time of the day. luckily for me,we got back,and finally were getting married as soon as our papers are complete..=)
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from one musician to another . we are a rare breed of cat. women find it hard to keep our attention. because we have other outlets for our happiness , They dont understand we still need love and , affection , But on our terms lol I miss all the little things but, hang in there I am in the same boat again,,, dont let them change you .. they all want too… one will come along take this down time to write some great songs , I find it the best time when your down.. the best therapy you can get… feel free to check some oof my music out the robert neeley project @ myspace music its all therapy bro
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you just miss that person and every time you see a picture or talk with that person, smells, common Friends you miss them all over again, its hard but you accept the fact that that person in no longer with you and you go on. you don’t need a therapist to tell you how you are feeling .
deal with it…. and the way you do that is USE YOUR FRIENDS, go out don’t stay home, keep busy, keep your mind occupied
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Empty bed, and certain times of the day when they would be coming home from work, or whereever.
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I missed everything and like you I wasn’t given a reason. You just move on, it will get easier with time. I know that’s what we all say but it’s true.
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