We broke up but we still hang out like usual. The pain is unbearable. Should I cut all the ties?
We broke up 4 days ago under mutual agreement. Ever since then the pain was so unbearable and I find it hard to breath. I talked to my ex saying I want to see him, he agreed. Now we still see each other everyday, actually I still live in his house everyday for the past 2 days. But we are together only as friends. Before we lived together, so now when I can’t see him, I feel absolutely painful to the extent I can’t stand it. But when I live in his house and think we are no longer bf/gf, I still feel very painful although less. I don’t know how to ease the pain. Should I just be strong and cut all the ties or should I still be friends with him to make the breakup easier, but i don’t know if it can help or make it harder for me.
I’ve been in a similar situation, and trust me, the more time you spend together now, the more it will hurt and make it harder for you to recover. You need to definitely cut ties for now, and then maybe in a few months time make contact again and see how it goes. I cut ties with my ex and now it’s been much easier to move on and be happy again. Time heals all wounds.
Is one of you married or something?
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If you have broken up, stop seeing him. Clearly continuing to see him is not working out for you.
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Go cold turkey, Sweetie.
Get out of there.
When he is out of the house get some of your friends to help you move your stuff.
Its going to hurt like hell for a couple of weeks, but you’ll start to feel better. You will!!!
It sucks when these things happen but it’s part of life.
xoxoxoxo
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be affectionate. talk to him about the breakup. just sit down and talk. see if he is just as torn up as you are.
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it sounds like u still like the dude?? so why did y’all brake up?? i think y’all should just talk it out!! and then see what happens?!?
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sounds like first love. i would cut off all ties, i suffered for 3 months and tried to get her back so bad and i cried everyday but i never got her back, with time it will not hurt anymore and you will love again,
i loved again and i was heartbroken again, and now i never want to be in a relationship ever again in my life, so just cut all ties
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be by myself- asher roth
I’ve been in a similar situation, and trust me, the more time you spend together now, the more it will hurt and make it harder for you to recover. You need to definitely cut ties for now, and then maybe in a few months time make contact again and see how it goes. I cut ties with my ex and now it’s been much easier to move on and be happy again. Time heals all wounds.
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yeah break it off it will only hurt more
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I am undergoing the same problem, just that in my case we are married. I love him very much but his attitude and gambling and they way we cannot communicate for more than 2 sentences just drives me nuts.
I seriously think we should muster up courage to just leave and not look back. (i am still trying)
We should try to get new friends and if we have made up our minds, don’t keep thinking how sweet he was, think of the reasons we made that decision in the first place..
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You have to break all ties to help you move on. That situation is not helping you. I know it will be hard. But the break up is still new and none can move on like that.
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Cut all the ties! It’s just going to make it harder. It’ll be hard to have no contact with him, but it’ll get easier over time; if you see him all the time, everyday ..it’s just going to be much harder.
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