Moving on from a nasty breakup??
It’s been over 2 weeks, and I’m still having a hard time getting over my ex, especially since eveytime i’m close to forgetting about him, he starts small talk on msn. (and since he found a new gf less than two weeks after we broke up) I want to move on and stop thinking about him, but it’s so hard. He was my first boyfriend, and I gave him everything. We were together for 10 months. I loved him more than i ever thought it was possible to love someone. All I want is another guy to help ease the pain of being alone, someone I can talk to and slowly build a relationship with. I miss being attached to someone. Does anyone have any advice for moving on from such a messy, hurtful break-up? My friends aren’t helping…they all promise to take me out for a good time, but then never answer my calls. 
I dont know what to do anymore.
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well, u have to listen to boyz II men, and you should contact me =)
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first off sorry for the heartbreak… if your friends are not helping you, try and help yourself… change your msn so he cant talk to you… go out and find someone they are prolly looking you in the face…
good luck.
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keep your head up. There are plenty of guys out there to replace the one you loss. The first thing you can do is maybe be your exs friend. Although he has moved on already, doesn’t mean that you can’t still be a part of his life, and be his friend. Talk to him, still have that friendship, and then on the other hand go look for a good guy to chat it up with. Doesn’t hurt to have someone just to talk to with no intentions of anything else.
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well i can understan wat ur goin thru….i have gone thru EXACTLY the same just the difference being it was my girlfriend….was just reading ur question thought its the same same situatuion as mine.. ok let me tell u what u can do…i know it hurts and tears will be unstoppable….u can do what i did… i have engaged myself in various classes, courses etc so that my mind stays off her and i don even have 1 minute to think about her…my schedule is that morning to afternoon i work, then hit the gym, then go for my french classes, then skating lessons
and then i go for a drive and finally end the day with my CFA studies…. and then doze off to sleep… see similarly u can also engage yourself in activities…trust me its difficult in the begininng but then later on u will get used to it… well i used to cry and was in lots of pain over the heartche but then one day i heard this HINDI song which says "jeene ke hai char din, Jawaani phir na aaye". this means life is just a matter of four days…live life to the fullest…this teenage years will never come back…just hang in there and live life to the fullest and don waste your life and precious tears behind a B*%$@#* like him (sorry abt that language)… and still at times if u feel ur mind is disturbed, just go to the church and sit calmly and look at the alter….thats what i did in the initial days…trust me it works…..well, u take care and keep rocking and remember "jawaani phir na aaye"
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