How to survive break-up?
I loved one girl and now it’s over. I realize I have to accept it but somehow I refuse to accept all logic. I am facing piercing pain all the day…I cry at times…don’t know what to do. Friends, please help me. Thanks.
Sweetie… I am a mom who just had a child that went through the same thing you are experiencing. I feel so sorry for you right now… I know it hurts! Wish I could give you a big hug and let you know you WILL be okay.
But, if the girl broke up with you, there is not really anything that you can do about getting her back. You should begin focusing on work or some kind of hobby. Maybe even begin an exercise program. Remember, that the best thing you can do right now is to just keep busy. It is also important to find someone in your life to talk to about your feelings about the break-up from this girl… you do not need to keep all of this pain inside.
You should not try to get the girl back… what is done is done. You should never move backward… you should move forward.
I know that it hurts so bad right now. It almost seems like a death. But, in time, I know you can’t see it right now, but you will start feeling better and there will be more girls
You will ALWAYS remember the wonderful memories of the first girl you loved… she will always be remember as your "first love".
just dont think of her and keep urself busy at work
it will slowly work out for u
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keep urself calm…..it will take time..it doesn’t wear off soon……a month at least…….try to think about sumthng else..hope it helps……….
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Get out and keep busy. Go places to meet new people and and do not be ashamed if you need counseling. Don’t let yourself get into a full blown depression. YOu will be ok. You are stronger than you think, just get out of the house and keep yourself occupied with something.
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MAN HARDEN THE FUCK UP AND MOVE ON
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Im going to assume that this break up probably just happened within…..maybe 48 at a minimum. ANYWHO whats done is done, learn from the relationship, why it ended, what you liked what you didnt, etc. but sitting around moping about her is NOT going to get you anywhere, trust me ive tried. Just give it some time and youll eventually get over her.
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Hi! I understand how you feel. It took me 6 months to forget the girl i loved for 2 months in my first relationship. I’d wake up in the middle of the night with dreams of her breaking up with me and wet my pillow with my tears.
The good news is that you realise that this has got to stop and you have got to move on.
What you need to do is to get yourself busy with stuff.
Hang out with your good friends, learn a new sport or hobby or take up a course. Make sure you are not alone at home doing nothing. Keep yourself busy from morning to night so that you’ll have no time to thing about the past.
As time passes, you will think lesser and lesser of her and your heart will ache lesser and lesser. You should also focus on enlarging your circle of friends and getting to know more single girls.
As you get to know more people you will also have a better idea of what type of ladies are suitable for you.
When you are ready to date again, you will have a big pool of ladies to choose from.
Remind yourself that you accomplish nothing by feeling sorry for yourself and there is no point in doing so. You should move on because life is too short to waste time mourning about something which should be better off ending earlier than later.
Good Luck!
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First you need to realize it will take some time before you start feeling good.
Second if you want to do the best thing for you do the following: get rid of any pictures, get rid of any contact, do not call, do not answer unless they are asking you to forgive them and take them back, do not even try to see them, do not try to know anything about what they are doing.
Third hang out with your friends, go out and have fun, meet new people, visit family, most important stay busy with things that make you happy.
Under no circumstance contact them. Believe me they are thinking of you and the more space you give them the better chances you will have of not pushing them away and having them come back.
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Break ups are never easy…
Just let yourself express your real feelings, keeping all that inside will only make things worse. Slowly you’ll see a change.
"Time heals all wounds"
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Sweetie… I am a mom who just had a child that went through the same thing you are experiencing. I feel so sorry for you right now… I know it hurts! Wish I could give you a big hug and let you know you WILL be okay.
But, if the girl broke up with you, there is not really anything that you can do about getting her back. You should begin focusing on work or some kind of hobby. Maybe even begin an exercise program. Remember, that the best thing you can do right now is to just keep busy. It is also important to find someone in your life to talk to about your feelings about the break-up from this girl… you do not need to keep all of this pain inside.
You should not try to get the girl back… what is done is done. You should never move backward… you should move forward.
I know that it hurts so bad right now. It almost seems like a death. But, in time, I know you can’t see it right now, but you will start feeling better and there will be more girls
You will ALWAYS remember the wonderful memories of the first girl you loved… she will always be remember as your "first love".
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It’s going to be ok…..I know this is tough for u, but keep your chin up, Keep yourself busy-go out with friends or spend time with your family something to keep your mind of her-don’t sit by the phone to see if she’ll call and don’t wait at home to see if she’ll come. Move on with your life(it’s easier said than done) but u cant put your life on pause. Soon before u know it theirs going to be someone else knocking at your door.
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Dear, if u really a girl,den simply go and tell her. No matter she accepts or rejects. Atleast you won’t regret that you didnt tried. And about breakups, you r a child of God, he will newer let u down. But u must not forget ur core competency and that is studies and ur work and ur responsibilities.
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The way you described your day to day pain exactly is the way a broken heart feels and it is not fun at all, it hurts more than anything. Most of us have been through this and most all of us have survived it and have come out of it wiser and stronger for it. I know at this stage you are not open to believe what I am telling you, but in time you will get over it, trust me, you will. In the mean time you will feel pain, and it will go from one day feeling better to another day feeling worse, like an ugly rollar coaster ride full of emotional turmoil. There is no escaping the pain, but eventually you will heal from this. And inspite of the risks of getting another broken heart, you will love again, and again and again until you find that right person who will love you back the way you want to be loved. Wish I could take your pain away, but I can’t, just letting you know I can sympathize and even though I do not know you, my wish for you is for better days ahead. God Bless!
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Aww. It’s hard I know trust me. Just focus on your life. Have fun! You have family and friends that love you and trust me the perfect girl will meet you one day! Goodluck and take it easy =)
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