How do you survive a break up? We have been together for 4 long years, and I can’t get over him.?


yes you can. always remember why you walked away in the first place, never lose sight of that. think about this quote:
"Never miss someone from your past.
There is a reason they didn’t make it to your future."

Give yourself alot of time and surround yourself with people who support and love you. people who understand what you are going through. go out and have fun, enjoy life, it’s WAY too short to waste dwelling on the past. whats happened has happened, and no one can change that. all you can do is keep your head held high and look towards the future. it also helps to get rid of things that remind you of him. clothes, gifts, pictures, etc. give yourself some time, don’t rush into a new relationship. you will be fine as long as you always remember why you walked away in the first place.

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5 Responses to “How do you survive a break up? We have been together for 4 long years, and I can’t get over him.?”

  1. Avelyn says:

    Time, time, time. Until then– it’s gonna hurt.
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  2. Alisa says:

    Give yourself time, you are hurting yourself. Dont think about it, there are more boys out there that are just like him or better. Dont stress.
    References :
    Own experinence.

  3. Carpe DM says:

    Sorry to hear that. It’s tough… time will help and it will become easier every day.

    For now put away things that remind you of him (pictures, gifts and other things he’s bought or given to you). Stop communicating with him for now (phone, e-mail, I.M., anything and everything).

    From there spend time doing things you like. Visit and hang out with friends and family. Just try to move on.

    It is definitely never easy when you give your heart to someone and they break it. It’ll feel like you can’t get over him and you’ll be sad but try to stay strong, be positive, and lean on others that care about you.

    Good luck.
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    *Experience

  4. sanders says:

    When you truly love someone, you will never really get over him. You have to learn to accept it and move on….

    To try and survive the break up. You need to put yourself first. Pamper yourself and go out with family and friends. This way you are not home feeling depressed.

    It is going to take time, but it will get better as time goes on….
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  5. JUSTAGIRL1 says:

    yes you can. always remember why you walked away in the first place, never lose sight of that. think about this quote:
    "Never miss someone from your past.
    There is a reason they didn’t make it to your future."

    Give yourself alot of time and surround yourself with people who support and love you. people who understand what you are going through. go out and have fun, enjoy life, it’s WAY too short to waste dwelling on the past. whats happened has happened, and no one can change that. all you can do is keep your head held high and look towards the future. it also helps to get rid of things that remind you of him. clothes, gifts, pictures, etc. give yourself some time, don’t rush into a new relationship. you will be fine as long as you always remember why you walked away in the first place.
    References :
    experience

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