how do i break up with my long term boyfriend?
i’m planning to break up with him at the end of next week. he hasn’t been giving enough attention and he has changed over the last few months, we have got to stage that things won’t get any better. what do i say to him? i still love him, but i just feel so undervalued, it’s a long story. do i give him one last kiss as well? what do you think? xx
thanks so much for answering my question too. 
i would just tell him what you wrote down here.
that it’s not a case of you not loving him, but it’s just that you think things aren’t going to get better. you feel undervalued by him, and think it’s best if both of you move on.
breaking up with someone is definitely hard. i know. i just broke up with my boyfriend too. 
but be strong. it will all work out.
a goodbye kiss might be good too. it might just say that you can still be friends.
good luck!
Sleep with his best friend…That should do the trick.
Or his brother, or dad
Or Mum!
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Just tell him you still love him as a friend but you feel that you guys have grown apart and need to go your own seperate ways.
I last kiss would just give him mixed signals and confuse him. Def dont do that.
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You should wait until after Christmas. It will be very bad of you to do it before then
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just tell him that u and him are moving on and that you don’t feel comfortable int the realtionship anymore
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Mate to start off, you’d had real guts to tell your boyfriend that your finished and then give him a good bye kiss, I couldnt do that and im a guy, i know what you mean though been there, if you love himjust finish with him on the telephone and tell him WHY, he should then do everything he can to make it up to you and get back with you and hopefully change for the better, if he doesnt then he wasnt worth it and you simply need to move on without and real fuss in my views, if you need a chat ill be on msn as a friend… ziggy_birmingham@hotmail.co.uk
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Well, if he was a long term boyfriend, you need to sit down and really talk to him. Explain exactly why. He may try to talk you out of, but make sure you have your mind set. After you start talking to him, it’s over. Tell him that you still want to be friends, just not close friends. Maybe you could kiss him on the cheek or something.
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Why don’t you talk to him first? If you still love him…tell him that if he doesn’t snap out of it and show you that he loves you then you’re leaving…give him a time limit…say, two weeks, and if it’s still not working then just say; "It’s really not working. Goodbye."
Don’t fall into the "last kiss trap"…we all know that will lead to one last sh*g and the next thing you know you’re just casual f*ck buddy for him and find any self worth you have ripped out from under your feet.
And don’t make the mistake of apologising either…loads of people do that! It’s his fault, you gave him a warning, that’s it now, it’s over…just walk away, cut him out of your life completely.
Allow yourself a little "grieving time" then move on…embrace your singledom…go enjoy yourself and don’t fall into a "rebound relationship!" lol…sorry for the essay there!
Good luck! x
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thanks so much for answering my question too.
i would just tell him what you wrote down here.
that it’s not a case of you not loving him, but it’s just that you think things aren’t going to get better. you feel undervalued by him, and think it’s best if both of you move on.
breaking up with someone is definitely hard. i know. i just broke up with my boyfriend too.
but be strong. it will all work out.
a goodbye kiss might be good too. it might just say that you can still be friends.
good luck!
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I can’t believe im using this as an example, but my ex bf broke up with me in a very nice way. He took me out to dinner and bought me flowers and told me that he couldnt handle the distance (which was only and hour). Though its a little different for you to break up with him. But go out to dinner have a good time, dont kiss him or tell him you love him it just makes it harder and more of a shock at the end. Tell him you still love him and care for him greatly but the passion between you 2 in the relationship just isnt there anymore. Talk about it see how he feels. Tell him WHY your doing it dont leave him with a bunch of questions.
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