How can I be less sensitive ? (getting over a breakup)?
I’ve mostly been in serious longterm relationships with strong emotional connections. I’m very passionate and have a lot of love to give my gfs. I’ve mostly ended my past relationships Except my Last one which was kinda forced upon me. Sadly enough she was the one who I had the strongest attraction to, I never got tired of seeing her face and I loved her soo much. Now I feel so empty, numb, emotional, and then a lot of hurt inside, specially betrayed. Like Loving too much = Hurting so much. We broke up a while ago, but I’m still "scarred" by the situation.
I used to be optimistic about love, now i’m not. I’ve fallen in love 3-4 times, so love is fleeting. I’m so hurt by her that I find it really hard to trust women in general and feel like it’s getting in my way of dating again. Like I see the big picture and ask "what’s the point?" if I fall in love agian, only to be hurt again…So I’m just depressed and bitter, and don’t know how to alleviate this.
And No I don’t like 1 night stands or short term gf to ease my pain. I’m not motivated to date again. When I fall for someone I put all my eggs in 1 basket. But I don’t know if I can do that anymore. How can I overcome these feelings so I can move On with my life ?? It’s effecting my outlook
give it time
develop a hobby that will take your mind off it,
preverably something theraputical like writing in a journal or painting or other forms of expressing yourself. these kinds of hobbies are very, they help you maintain a healthy psychological state.
eventually you’ll meet someone and fall for them again.
whatever happens then will happen.
let life unfold itself.
give it time
develop a hobby that will take your mind off it,
preverably something theraputical like writing in a journal or painting or other forms of expressing yourself. these kinds of hobbies are very, they help you maintain a healthy psychological state.
eventually you’ll meet someone and fall for them again.
whatever happens then will happen.
let life unfold itself.
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You need to love/like the person that you are without needing a woman to make you feel validated. If you fill yourself with self-esteem, then you will have those reserves of energy to draw on at times like these. If a woman is your only source of positive energy, then you need to find other things to fill your tank with so that you are not so dependent. You have the right to be happy just as you are now.
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All I can say is love is the most powerful thing dont let women change your point of few on it you have to keep trying till you find that special girl that will treat you with respect. The only way i could think of trying to get over her is hanging with the guys or having time to yourself. Obviously she wasn’t the right one for you, don’t expect to move on right away tho because i know how your feeling it took me 3 years to get over a guy who had completely broke my heart. I don’t think you should change your sensitivity because a women should love you for it. Hope i could help
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The ones you really care about are the ones that can hurt you. It’s true..i gave my ex a lot of feeling and that crashed badly when she broke up. The lesson i learned is to never get attached 100% and never give 100% unless you’re getting married. I’ve tried this out and the girls are more into you if you’re not giving them 100% of your heart. It’s like a fishing line…you pull then let go…you give them emotions then give them less….then a bit more when they do something for you.
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Trey,
Why are you asking this question here about how you feel about an ex and you have another question going about wanting this other girl who you’ve never dated but she is to good for you?
Perhaps you should take some" me time" get all your thoughts together and decide what you really want.Your feelings are really all over the place right now.Maybe you could use a counselor to talk to .We all need that once in awhile.
Good Luck
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concerned about you
Time heals all wounds.
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