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	<description>YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS, YOU WILL BE OKAY, AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE!</description>
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		<title>By: ID</title>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 09:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can relate to this.  Trust me, I know how you feel.
I lost the love of my life.  This woman was my best friend, then became my lover, then became my son&#039;s mother, then became my fiance and now, I&#039;m @ the point that I haven&#039;t seen my 3yr old son since last year because she will NOT allow it.  She has not talked to me or has not let me see my son since last year.  Trust me, I know how you feel.
I never thought what I felt for her would ever go away as well.
I wanted the way I felt to go away so I could move on and find a new life.  The only thing anyone in this position can do is to wait it out, and stay busy as much as you can.  It helps to always hang out with friends and family.  Try as hard as possible to keep your mind occupied.  I know you might not be in the mood to meet new people but it would help just to KINDA date some1 else, to get your mind on new things and as far away as it can be from your ex.
Let me know how it worX
 Out...good luck&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;V1DA</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can relate to this.  Trust me, I know how you feel.<br />
I lost the love of my life.  This woman was my best friend, then became my lover, then became my son&#8217;s mother, then became my fiance and now, I&#8217;m @ the point that I haven&#8217;t seen my 3yr old son since last year because she will NOT allow it.  She has not talked to me or has not let me see my son since last year.  Trust me, I know how you feel.<br />
I never thought what I felt for her would ever go away as well.<br />
I wanted the way I felt to go away so I could move on and find a new life.  The only thing anyone in this position can do is to wait it out, and stay busy as much as you can.  It helps to always hang out with friends and family.  Try as hard as possible to keep your mind occupied.  I know you might not be in the mood to meet new people but it would help just to KINDA date some1 else, to get your mind on new things and as far away as it can be from your ex.<br />
Let me know how it worX<br />
 Out&#8230;good luck<br /><b>References : </b><br />V1DA</p>
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		<title>By: TheReallyCoolGuy09</title>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 08:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am sorry to hear that.
well being busy doesn&#039;t really help
listen to music
or talk to some friends
the only remedy for something like this is time 
so give it a while
best of luck&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sorry to hear that.<br />
well being busy doesn&#8217;t really help<br />
listen to music<br />
or talk to some friends<br />
the only remedy for something like this is time<br />
so give it a while<br />
best of luck<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Kai</title>

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		<dc:creator>Kai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 08:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do things that you could not do when he was there. Reclaim your space! 
I know that this is a cliche but breaking up can be a new beginning and being alone allows you to learn more about yourself and prepares you for the next love, when it&#039;s time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do things that you could not do when he was there. Reclaim your space!<br />
I know that this is a cliche but breaking up can be a new beginning and being alone allows you to learn more about yourself and prepares you for the next love, when it&#8217;s time.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: KN</title>

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		<dc:creator>KN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 07:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eat chocolate hun&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eat chocolate hun<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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