Difficult Relationship problems. Help please, this might be a little long but please read.?
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i met a boy last year, we went out and immediately fell in love. we recently broke up after a year of dating. the reason was too much fighting, too many tears, but it wasn’t a harsh breakup we went into it being friends, but every time we hung out sexual things took place, so we cut off all connections with each other.
weeks went by, i met another boy, i knew he would not be anything like the one before but we started going out. a week or two after me and him got together i texted my ex, we left off on a bad note and i wanted to set things strait.
he had hooked up with two girls, which completely crushed me! sure i have a boyfriend but i miss him constantly, and he supposedly misses me. i Had the perfect opportunity to do sexual things with my new boyfriend but i turned him down because i had my ex on my mind.
some more things…
my parents dont like my ex at all, neither do my friends. and i know i dont care what they thing but if my parents have no respect for him i wont be allowed out, only starting more problems…
i just want some advise, maybe help me get over him, or what do you think would be in my best interest.
If it wasn’t working, get over him. You may think he was the best or will be the best, but if it ended because of fighting, he wasn’t. You need a guy that will be there for you always and not fight all the time. Usually, and I know this sounds crazy but, parents know best. I emphasize usually because there are some parents who are completely clueless when it comes to relationships. If your friends don’t like him either, it’s usually for the best reasons, if your parents don’t like him, it could mean they don’t want you dating but when your friends don’t like him either, that usually is a HUGE sign that he’s no good. Good luck with everything, I can only give you what advice from what I have seen happen, so, sorry if it doesn’t help a whole lot. Just use your best judgment and think about what is good for YOU.
You could take your friends’ advice, they probably don’t like him for a reason. He’s your EX now, isn’t he? You have to think of him more as your EX than as your boyfriend. After all, you have a new boyfriend. What happens when he finds out your still thinking about your ex? Don’t you think you’ll be hurting him?
Your being a little selfish now.
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If it wasn’t working, get over him. You may think he was the best or will be the best, but if it ended because of fighting, he wasn’t. You need a guy that will be there for you always and not fight all the time. Usually, and I know this sounds crazy but, parents know best. I emphasize usually because there are some parents who are completely clueless when it comes to relationships. If your friends don’t like him either, it’s usually for the best reasons, if your parents don’t like him, it could mean they don’t want you dating but when your friends don’t like him either, that usually is a HUGE sign that he’s no good. Good luck with everything, I can only give you what advice from what I have seen happen, so, sorry if it doesn’t help a whole lot. Just use your best judgment and think about what is good for YOU.
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Isn’ enough that all your friends and relatives doesnt like your ex? Im not judging him as i dont know him but there must be a reason why they felt that way to him. Beside this is going to be a rough relationship if you still keep hold on to him, from the fact that you always fight. Its time for you to move on, he already have a new woman, either he loves them or not, you are already out of the picture Listen girl, you are in a new relationship, why dont you try to spend your energy and your feelings towards him. You miss him and cant get over him because you are still thinking about him, because you still leave your memory with him. My advice is cut all your contact, communications and dont ever try to communicate to him. I know its hard, but it is only for the beginning, belive me because i been there. Besides youll never knew how great this new guy if you dont give him an oppurtunity to have a loving relationship with him. He might be better that your ex. Dont ever take this new guy for granted cause one day you will realize how stupid you are when you lose him because of your feelings from your ex. Believe me cause i made a biggest mistakes in my life. Good luck
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