Any Way to Ease My Pain?
i really like a guy, but he has a girlfriend. they are probably going to breakup, but until then, if it even happens, does anyone have any way to not feel like killing someone or crying every time i see them together? Please help!
Wow….i’m getting so many mixed answers! just, so you know….i’m not too imature for a relationship, i can’t control my emotions. also, i was joking when i said i wanted to kill someone. i DO NOT need professional conseling. to everyone who actually understands~ thanks!
oh, and don’t worry, i would never intentionally break them up!
Why the hell is everyone saying i need professional help? why does liking someone require professional help????!
Voodoo…
Works like a charm.
Drink a chill pill
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ice cream
or … look for another guy..
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Voodoo…
Works like a charm.
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uuuggghhh sounds like you have a crush….only time will tell…hang in there one day you’ll laugh at the situation
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no guy is worth killing someone over. you are going to need some professional counseling. in the meantime, get a puppy.
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OMG ill cry with you this guy that i like has a gf too
how sad
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keep your chin up, when you see them, don’t think about them together just imagine that its just you in the hallway and don’t pay them any mind,
if you really like him this much, and it sounds like you do, things will probably work out, you’ve just gotta be strong for a little longer : )
Good Luck!
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that’s life, and it is part of growing up. Get used to it.
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you need to let go of that idea. why wait around for someone to break up? go live your life so you dont have time to lust after someone elses boyfriend.
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ive been there… done that… try to avoid them… no matter what… and jus think whats best for him and how happy he is
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so what if he has a girlfriend its not like there married you should go and make your move
p.s. chill the fouck out
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you just gotta suck it up and tell yourself that you know you cant have him, since he is taken, and try not to focus on him so much. try being independent and keeping busy and doing things with your friends. think about all the great guys you might be missing out on becuase yoru focusing too much on one that isnt worth your time. time heals all, so just give it some and youll be fine
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Went through the same thing babe this is the song that got me through
I once knew a girl
In the years of my youth
With eyes like the summer
All beauty and truth
In the morning I fled
Left a note and it read
Someday you will be loved.
I cannot pretend that I felt any regret
Cause each broken heart will eventually mend
As the blood runs red down the needle and thread
Someday you will be loved
You’ll be loved you’ll be loved
Like you never have known
The memories of me
Will seem more like bad dreams
Just a series of blurs
Like I never occurred
Someday you will be loved
You may feel alone when you’re falling asleep
And everytime tears roll down your cheeks
But I know your heart belongs to someone you’ve yet to meet
Someday you will be loved
You’ll be loved you’ll be loved
Like you never have known
The memories of me
Will seem more like bad dreams
Just a series of blurs
Like I never occurred
Someday you will be loved
You’ll be loved you’ll be loved
Like you never have known
The memories of me
Will seem more like bad dreams
Just a series of blurs
Like I never occurred
Someday you will be loved
Someday you will be loved
*Death Cab For Cutie
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SOrry to be so blunt to you but someone has to. You need to move on with your life. If he’s going out with someonewhy believe what you her unless you know it’s true. And besides what makes you think that he will have you as his gf just because he breaks up with her. SO one thing for certain you need to grow up first before getting a bf. Your too immature to have one now.
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Be honest and stay away from them. My coming marriage was just ruined by a girl who cheated with my fiance. It has truly broken my heart and changed my views on everything. Let them be and meet someone else or calm down and give this time. If he ends up liking you, imagine how SHE will feel.
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Wow. That’s tough. I don’t think it’s good to developed feelings for someone with a girlfriend. But it already happened so………….I would recommend you look for other guys.Try to have fun and not just center your attention on him. Don’t focus on him, and if the time comes, you may have a chance with him.
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Whenever you see them just look down, act as if you havent seen them, stay calm. The best thing to do is just not concentrate on it too hard, eventually they’re gonna break up, and if you really like him then he’ll be worth the wait. Good luck.
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Well you need to keep your eyes off other people’s MAN! That’s not good at all. He is taken and that’s how you need to look at him. Now if he breaks up with her for you just know that he’s DEFINITELY gonna break up with you for someone else. Don’t break them up that’s triffling and whorish if you ask me. A whore broke up my parents and I always said I’d never do that because it will come back to bite u n the bootie. Move on because you wouldn’t want someone plotting on your relationship to fail so they can take your man so don’t do it to someone else.
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either move on or just wait…
before i got with my current girlfriend (who btw is hella amazing and beautiful) but i was with this other girl and she got jealous every time she saw us and she never told me and then her friend ended up tellin me about it because i told him i wanted to be with her… and so that made me like her so much more because she was always there for me and when my girlfriend dumped me of course she had her i told you so but she truly ment it and i love her to death now
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What you should probably do every time you see them is just to imagine they already broke up.
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ah i know how you feel, it happened to me when i was younger, what you need to do is be Friends with him, you know just become good friends it makes things unbelievably better trust me, i hated that feeling
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Grow up emotionally. It is not the responsibility of anyone else on this earth to make you happy or to bring joy to your heart. It is your responsibility alone. Without even getting to know him, you have handed this guy your heart and have said, "here it is yours. You alone can make me happy. Now do it." How silly is that? You are being obssessive and possessive before you even get to know him.
Get over yourself and your obssession. It won’t be a healthy relationship if you do get to date him eventually because you’ll be clinging to him every moment, physically or by phone. You’ll strangle him with attention and he’ll have to escape.
You need to learn to find your own happiness; things that bring you and you alone joy. When you become that joyful person in and of yourself, you will become more attractive to guys.
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Take comfort that they are gonna be breaking up anytime soon. So keep telling yourself, just a few more crying days….it will soon be happy days!!! Now if you want to speed up their break-up, you may want to turn up your charms and hook him now. Do you need help in that department? Be cool.
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awww, dont worry, i dont really have an answer because the same thing happened to me…believv it or not. ill pray for you!!
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take 2 aspirins and then call someone in the morning
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sorry honey you need some profess help
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