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Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by fishhead_oh

fishhead_oh — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:13:59 +0000

some guys recover fast and some take years. i had a girl friend that just broke up with her bf 3 months ago cos he is in love with another girl. after the guy broke up with my friend the next day he delete all the photo he took with my friend and up load the photo that he took with his new gf on facebook. when my friend saw it she cry so badly and nearly kill herself. dun be too upset ur bf did it after 3 weeks is not a big thing to upset lor.
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Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by gimpalomg

gimpalomg — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 04:59:59 +0000

I can only speak for myself but for me it is tough.

I returned from Vietnam in 1970. The woman I left, the woman I loved had moved on while I was ducking bullets and dodging mortar rounds. Seldom does a day pass that I don’t think of her. I mostly wonder if she is happy. I hope so, I let her go because I loved her, not because I was angry. Perhaps if I had been angry it would have been easier. I did marry and I have children but I also have the demons that was that relationship. I am now approaching the end of my life and still those demons haunt me. It would not surprise me if she was the last thing I think of in this life.

You may want to move on in spite of the situation; not to hurt him but maybe to help yourself. You are the only one who can make that decision. I hope you can rid yourself of the demons, they are very heavy baggage and they will always be there. It is a matter of whether you carry them with you of if you can store them safely away in the attic of your memories.

Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
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Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by chavs n scavs

chavs n scavs — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 04:15:59 +0000

Aww dont let it bother you,i think men do sometimes but normally they are just as upset but deal with it differantly,
he may of done it for your benefit so you would see it or he may just be happy sorry, either way your best bet now is to NEVER look at his profile again,not ask about him and get on with having fun yourself,

you probably think yeah right easy for you to say but honest soon enough you will be thinking What was i so upset for????

take care and go out and enjoy yourself!!
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life lol

Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by cockster

cockster — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 03:30:59 +0000

man usually move on faster then women because being a man is not showing signs of weakness. This makes males always present a strong front in the eyes of people and recover quickly from a breakup. Those who just ended a relationship or given the news from a female can just erase it from the head and meet someone new in just a few weeks.
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Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by Unnamed

Unnamed — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 02:41:59 +0000

if what he said was true, then he is having just as hard a time as you are.

My honest opinion is that he has moved on after 3 weeks. That is a long while and most guys recover by then.

But i still think he put that up so you can read it. If you are thinking about him because of it, then what he was trying to do is working.
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Comment on Do men recover faster from a break up? by ~Libby~

~Libby~ — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 02:28:59 +0000

Everyone moves on at different paces. and yes, he probably just put that on myspace to bother you.
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Comment on Recover from a break up? by Prem

Prem — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 15:39:59 +0000

Hi Song Y,
Why are you crying & wasting your tears? I know that is hard to stop the tears when you think about your past. What i can tell you is you must take a challenge & forget about it, If you can’t at the end you will be the looser. I have a experience about it, Because i had a boyfreind he only expressed his love & forced me to love him at last i felt love with him, He was a honnest & good person,his parents got to know about it & they charmed him to change his mind. What can we do? slowly he has changed his habbits, Every time he insulted me, Now he is in abroad but he has got all the bad habbits.
I cried & cried for about 5 years. At last i lost my weight & the pretty. Now almost 8 years past. what can we do? Be challenge, show your tallents. THINK here after i never cry for him unless he cry for you. He must think that he missed you a lot
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Comment on Recover from a break up? by Neil V

Neil V — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 15:30:59 +0000

sorry to hear about the pain that you are going through. i never knew what it felt like till it happened to me. a few things helped me get over it but it did take time and still hurts today 3 yrs later. firstly focus on friends and family!! try new things, spend time with the people in your lilfe you can trust and rely on. the worst thing you could do would be to jump into anoyther relationship before recovering fully from this one. in time you need to be able to say a few things about the time you had together. firstly that you are thankfull for what you had and learnt. secondly, truely in your heart, forgive them for all they have done and in return ask for forgivness for all that you have done. this can be vocal or written.

try and keep busy. a good cry is always good, A BIT OF SELF PITY NEVER HURT ANYONE, BUT IF YOU LINGER ON THAT TOO MUCH IT WILL NEVER ALLOW THE WOUND TO HEAL PROPERLY WITHOUT LEAVING A SCAR.

it will be on your mind 24hrs a day 7 days a week. but as time goes on you’ll start having new experiances that detract you from the pain. i wrote i small letter to my ex (60 pages) everytime i was upset or had something i needed to say to her, without actually saying it to her. keep this letter as an ongoing account of your feelings and experiance and you will see that over time the pain turns into learning and eventually thanks. but that will take time.

one thing that i am trying to put accross to you is do not bottle the whole relationship up and pretend this never happened. at first this may be the only way to keep from crying but i think that eventually the pain does need to be addressed and never, no matter what allow yourself to feel that this is never going to get better. i promise you in time it will!!! best of luck!
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Comment on Recover from a break up? by wellasexy

wellasexy — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 14:52:59 +0000

Cry your heart out baby…and accept the truth..Please do not be in denial. It’s really nice to have a friend that who can be with you in times like this..But anyway, its his loss not yours right? Just go out and have fun!!!! It’s really cool to be single..
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Comment on Recover from a break up? by Love stricken

Love stricken — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 14:10:59 +0000

U cant do anything u just need x ! I once lost a guy i really loved, without him actually breaking up with me we were just not meant to be, he used to work a t a hotel we went to visit often, and they closed it! I was really upset for quite a while maybe 1 month and a half, and i gave up on love, but then 2 months later i couldn’t help falling in love who was trying to get with me & now im actually happier than before even though he lives across the world i still love him !
Love Comes when u least expect it, but ur gnnna stay upset for a while !
Tc Xx
I kno the world seems to b over, but everything, but ur beter of without him ! & things well get better soon!=D I promiseXD
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