Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

Well about a week ago my girlfriend of a little over a year broke up with me. We broke up mainly because I had some trust issues that I had to work on and she felt it would be better if we both took some time off to grow but we could still be friends. I love this girl more than anyone I have ever been with before and this breakup has been the hardest one of my life. I would do anything to get her back (which I would never do for any other ex) so I decided it would be better to tackle my own issues head on not just for her but for myself as well. The thing is I really feel that this breakup has shown my issues in a different light then ever before and I truely feel I can learn from it and overcome them. I want to overcome them with her (my ex). Additionally I have shown her (not just told her which I have) that I am taking steps to overcome these issues. Not only that she calls and texts me everyday since and tells me goodnight and asks me what I am doing that night and such. She also appreciates me showing her I am taking the steps to fixing my issues. My question is all this contact (I hardly ever iniate the contact) a sign that she is reconsidering the breakup or is she just merely being friendly?
Almost forgot she tells me she had told me she still loves me. Now I do not know if that is as a friend or what but if that is at all significant I thought you (the readers) should know

I’m not sure but I think she is being a supportive friend to you (but not romantic).

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WHY would he say, he is busy and had to sleep early to bed and you find out he is online with chat friends and he wouldn’t want to talk to you. He would only talk to you on the weekend to ask you for cybersex. Does he really care for you.
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i hate to say this, but honestly, i think he’s taking you for granted, and my guess is that it’s not your fault. i’m assuming that you used to have a healthy two-sided relationship and that you use the time you spend with him to treat him right, to show an interest in his life, and to be honest with him about how you feel and what you want.

maybe he wants to break up with you but doesn’t have the spine to take responsibility for his feelings and instead is treating you poorly in hopes that you’ll end it and move on. there are endless possible explanations, really, but i don’t think it’s very important to figure out which one is correct. the bottom line is that he’s taking you for granted, isn’t fulfilling your needs, and isn’t giving you an opportunity to fulfill his needs.

my advice is that you should confront him. tell him that care about him, and that you enjoy the time you spend with him, and that you want to make him happy, but that you feel taken for granted and shut out of his life and want to know how he feels and what his motivations are. maybe he’ll open up and you can work on things together. if he doesn’t, though, my advice is that you should move on. no one deserves to be treated dishonestly and with disregard.

good luck!

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I think my ex girlfriend is giving off some signs that she wants me back? Tell me what you think:

-Shes texted, or called EVRERYDAY since the break up, for no reason sometimes. Sometimes its just to tell me funny things. Once it was to ask if i remembered when she backed into my car. Of course i do!

- I told her that i would drop off something in her mailbox. she said can i get it from your work? I said yes but id be more than happy to drop it off. She insisted on coming to get it… even tho her friend was on the way to her house, and she had to work in an hour. when she got here i gave it to her and walked away. She said wait, can i have a hug? I hugged her. She told me she missed me and said i smell and look good. I believe she just wanted to see me.

- during the above time, she asked if she looked good, because she has been tanning.

- She told me that she has lost weight, been nervous, had no apetite and hasnt been sleeping well. I said its probably the flu, and she no its happened every since the breakup.

- she texted me this morning "wake up!" when i needed to be up. She said she couldnt sleep.

This all started the weekend after we broke up. She broke up with me because we never did anything anymore (got routine). She has gone out and drank and partied, but always is contacting me the day after and every day for that matter. She has seen that i have been going out and partying.

Do you think she is realizing how much she loved me? We were together for 3 years, and i want her back.

Why do you want an ex back? You should move forward, not keep going backwards. She will only continue her ways. She won’t change. You’ll still be miserable. She’ll still accuse you of doing nothing. Find someone who won’t b*tch to you so much.

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I have no trouble attracting men, but difficulty in keeping them interested. They seem to chase me and i play it cool, but as soon as i show that i’m interested and do things like reply as straight away when they text me and agree to meet every time they ask and show that i like they back off and lose interested. Any advise on this would be great especially from a mans point of view. Thanks.

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Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me a week and a half ago after weve been together for four months. She since her exams started she hasnt felt we connected anymore like we used to even a few weeks before the exams. She said that she was maybe even using the exams as an excuse not to to do somefin wif me she was that confused. She said it was the hardest thing she ever done in her life and has been crying for ages about it and was almost crying on the day, her eyes filled up. I told her I cared a lot about her and she said she cared about me and wants to be friends but she doesnt no how that would work since we never were friends. I am her first bf and believe that we drifted apart because we didnt spend enough time alone as a couple.And think she made a rushed decision because of exams and stress, Im disappointed she didnt try to make it work as well. Anyway i respected her decision and decided maybe she needs space so I havent contacted her since. I didnt want to wait around for her and have been trying to get on with life. my friends girlfriend is actually one of her friends but is annoied at her and shocked for breaking up with me and nt trying to make it work so shes not going out of her way to talk to her. The problem I have is today I found out that my ex is actually now going out with another guy. I was surprised it hurt me as much as it did, and have been so confused and shocked now at hearing this. my friend seen her bebo and someguy is now her other half and have been sending flirty comments. my friends girlfriend then asked her and my ex says she is going out with someone. Now I really am confused and don’t get how she could go out with someon1 so soon. Im getting a hole pile of thoughts going through my head. Im now getting the impressions she cheated on me for him and that she never did care about me?:s. she was very upset about breaking up with me and I didnt think she would b able to date again for a while. she is also going to france in half a month for a month. she is still in the middle of the exams which end next week that she needs 3As for. I just dont get it and am so confused. She def didnt seem to be the sort of girl that would cheat r do something like that so quickly saying I am her first boyfriend and she was extremely upset and she said that she cared about me. my mums even surprised :s im just so confused right now. she hasnt contacted me i avent contacted her I signed in msn once nd she went straight off. she also put pics of us up together on bebo the day after the breakup from the night b4 and kept her status the same:S.im so confused.would she be trying to make me jealous r anything?i get the impression now she never cared about me, cheated on me, lied to me about the break up and everything else and she didnt seem to be that sort of person to do that :S.ive been trying to move on and was prepared for this but not so soon and it did hurt more than I thought.is this normal for girls to do:S
ive also been hearing that she has been doing terrible in her A levels and getting realy upset, which also hurts me cause I still care about her. my friends girlfriend that is friends with her basically says my ex is turning into a waster. I dont get it she just seems to have completely turned her life upside down.

she was probably really confused and possibly felt that you didn’t care enough about her…maybe. she probably had other stuff going on in her life, did you ever ask her what was wrong? you need to send her an email/txt/voicemail telling her she is a good person and you miss her and you hope she’s doing alright. because this way she would know you still care about her, she’s feels happier, she might realize she shouldnt have broke up with you and also she would think about you(thou she probably does). good luck!

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how can i keep my man interested in sex while i am pregnant, i am getting bigger each day and i feel less attractive, what can i do to my man???

Most men find pregnant women very sexy. So just set an romantic evening and let him know you are still intrested in sex.

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Does this girl like me or does she just want attention? I did hear from her friends that she’s feeling a bit lonely after her breakup. (WE’RE IN COLLEGE)

Here are her signs:

- She gave me eye contact, smiled, and then swiped her hair back.
- She follows me around the room – where I sit, she sits.
- She asks me a lot of questions (where do you live? whats your major? what are your summer plans?)
- She does not stop telling literally every guy we run into that I have a cool name.
- She talks to a lot of guys but as soon as I show up, she immediately breaks them off and focuses all on me.
- One time I approached her and she looked at me suddenly WIDE-EYED and acted a bit nervous.
- It was raining outside and she said "Would you like to get inside my umbrella with me?" I said "thats okay" and shes like "ohh, nooo?"
- One time we were walking out and she kept nagging, "where do you liveeeee?" I said "I can’t tell you. It’s a secret" And she just kept nagging and nagging haha "whereeee???"
- Sometimes she keeps looking back at me during class, but whenever I make eye contact she looks away.

But when I asked her out to dinner she said "ummmmmmmmm…I’m dating someone right now…..wait. Did you mean it like THAT? Or did you just want to hang out?"

I still managed to keep this from becoming awkward and still was able to snag her number 3 days later (she happily gave it to me haha). Then she asked me to go to this concert thing with her. I’m assuming she just wants to hang out as friends? (She’s new here and she has no friends yet)

Is she simply being a little tease?
Well, I said yes to her concert request and tonight (friday), we’re taking a 45 minute taxi to the stadium. i have no idea what to do: Should I flirt with her or not. I was going to simply flirt with everyone in front of her and treat her as a guy but then again, she might actually like me and that would lose her.

Let me just tell you that you’re not going to get anywhere with her. She just wants attention. Kudos for keeping things from getting awkward though.

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Keep beer in the fridge and cook bacon at least every other night. Just sayin girls, don’t get all psycho on me.

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