Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

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ok, we were together for 8 months and during those 8 months we had broken up 4 times… and she decided to break up those 4 times, the 3 time really hurt and the last one is kicking in and by kicking in i mean that music, smells, places ect. remind me of her… what can i do to ease the pain a little? help me!

the best thing to do is try your best not to think about her. that sounds silly i know, because EVERYTHING around you reminds you of her.

maybe instead of listening to country music which maybe she loved, you could try listening to rock music for a change. or getting out and hanging with your guy friends, and trying to warm up to a new girl.

she kept hurting you it seems, so it might be best to push her out of your mind and don’t let her know you miss her. Act like you’re having the time of your life without her.

You won’t get over her in a day. Like i told my friend who was with this one boy on and off for 2 years….. it gets easier and easier everyday. Just take it one day at a time. Before you know it, you won’t even remember why you made such a big deal about what’s-his-name. (or in your case what’s-her-name).

good luck and stay strong

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I was dating a woman that I was madly in love with and when we broke up she did some really horrible things to me. Without getting into specifics, I still have deep feelings for her but she wants absolutely nothing to do with me anymore. I am crushed. I had some flowers and gifts delivered to her home for her birthday and she told her doorman to refuse the package. The following week she had an attorney write a bogus cease and desist letter. Trust me, I am not a stalker. I do not harass people and have never acted violently towards anyone ever. I moved across the country to be closer to this woman and she broke my heart. Do I move on and leave this city? How do I get the kind of closure that I need to be at peace with something that still continues to hurt me deeply?

Move on and grow.

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i’ve tried running which is ok but what do you think works the best that you’ve tried?

When I went through the toughest break-up I was seriously depressed. I wouldn’t stop crying and I wanted him back so much, but then I thought about it long and hard and figured out I was better off without him.
What I did not to think about it was I bought a load of books and just started reading, then I started writing my own stories and books.
Just do something creative or relaxing. Take up a sport that requires more thought (archery is a good one) Or (might sound weird) but pole dancing, or belly dancing. It really helps you confidence and it works wonders on your body!
I hope this helped
Good luck!

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I really thought this guy liked me…he was sending all the signals, but never asked me out. He sent me chocolate and a card on Valentine’s Day and it was then that I told him I liked him as more than a friend. He had previously been very awkward and shy but he started talking to me more after that and said he would be interested. Things died down a bit and I started to get over him, but I was really confused as to what he wanted since his signals were so mixed! I had a mutual friend ask him what he was planning to do with me. He told the friend that he doesn’t think relationships are worth it in high school because he thinks they will end quickly and he doesn’t have the time, but he really wants to stay friends and keep talking with me and doesn’t want me to think he’s a jerk. I was expecting that, but needless to say, I was still a little disappointed. I know his parents are very strict (he doesn’t have a cell phone or facebook) and make him take hard classes, so I totally understand why he wouldn’t be ready for a relationship. The thing is, I wasn’t looking for a relationship, just a date! But now that I know it’s a lost cause, I’m ready to move on. However, other people found out which is upsetting because I don’t want them to feel bad for me because I don’t feel bad myself. One person flat out said she felt bad for me, and I could sense it in another guy’s tone of voice. They both thought he liked me and felt bad that it wasn’t so. Anyways, the mutual friend told him to talk to me about it, but he never did. He probably still thinks I like him. Should I let it go? Or should I confront him about it? I think I want to talk to him about it because I need closure. We’re in high school.

I think you should let it go. I wish I could go back and let go of all that angst I felt in jr. high/high school trying to date. The chances of you finding the love of your life or even someone that you will really click with in high school are so slim. I wish I could go back and just enjoy being with my friends, being young, having few responsibilities, etc. Instead I was so focused on this guy, that guy, meeting guys, dating guys. Enjoy your youth and start dating in college. Chances are, that’s where you’ll find your soul mate.

Edit: and by the way, you never find the one you’re looking for when you’re looking. Stop looking for love and it will find you.

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The one you love and you fell in love with and he/she broke up with you. how do you recover from a broken heart?

I just broke up with the guy I was with for 3 years he is also my sons dad. We were planning to get married next year but, things didn’t work out. What I do is hang out with my friends and go to get-togethers to meet new people that way your mind isn’t always thinking about that person and it makes it easier on your heart.

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I saw a guy on and off for awhile – just a fun thing but somewhere along the way I fell for him. It has been three years and I have since met someone else which I know he isnt happy with and he wont speak to me. I need to resolve my issues and feelings but I dont want to harass him. He told me to get out of his life or he would have me up for stalking. If I go to his place of work – he works alone after all this time could he accuse me of this. It isnt like I am on his doorstep, ringing him up etc. which I thought constituted stalking.

You need to let him be, let him move on with his life. He is trying to deal with losing you, and you have to leave him alone.

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My boyfriend and I broke up recently. He still wanted me around to be his friend but I refused – too painful being around him knowing that I’ve been demoted from the love of his life to someone he randomly messages when he feels like it.

To stop this from happening, I enforced no contact and I haven’t heard from him since, that was over 2 weeks ago. I am so lonely and miserable and desperate and I’m fighting the urge to contact him.

I know that keeping busy will make me feel better, but now the holidays are here and I’m not working I’m going crazy with grief. My family live interstate and my friends are on holidays. Suggestions?
Yes I do have a dog and volunteer at the animal shelter

YOU have the power in you!
you have proven that you have some inner strength. Taking that stand was an intelligent thing to do.
Please continue to fight this urge to contact him…if he has moved on, you will feel worse!
Write down all of the mean things that he has said or done to you and refer to that list often.
It will help you to remember that he was just a person with flaws and he was not perfect and certainly not perfect for YOU!
Consider him a teacher….preparing you for the right one
now when you find him you will appreciate him that much more.
Also there is a book called ‘how to survive the loss of a love’
it is on amazon
check it out if time permits

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basically ive been with my bf a year and he left a week ago without a trace.hes changed his number ,hes literally vanished,i think hes back at his mums ,tho,so ive heard ,but theyr not answering my calls.
ive left emails and texts asking why hes done this,and hes not responding,hes totally blanking me.
obviously ,this looks like he has dumped me asnd my heart is in pieces.
i need closure,i need answers becasue he has rejected me in the most cowardly way.
why do u think he hasnt ended it with meface to face or even by fone or even email or text,just so i can get the answers as to why he has gone?i know other women in this position and they never move on becasue they were left with no explanation.
can i assume its definetly over and why has he chose to ignore me and leave with out a trace or expantion and how do i move on with my heart in tatters not knowing why one minute he was in love with me planning to get engaged and the other minute he disappears with no contact?has anyone any idea why he has done it in this way and what i should do next?i have so many unnanswered questions and i feel demoralised.

Oh my god, what an a**hole, but really he is just a coward, he couldn’t stand to hurt you and feel guilty about it. Although it hurts, he did you a favor and better now than when you are married with kids right? Can you imagine that? The closure will have to come from the fact that you can now confirm that he is not someone you would want to be married to, you saw his true colors. I know this has got to be unbearably difficult. My boyfriend broke up with me (of almost one year) also 5 weeks ago and a week before was talking about marriage and the future. I keep going over and over in my mind and it doesn’t make sense. I will have to keep working day to day on getting over it. Stay strong. Email me if you want.

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Dating after divorce with kids in the mix is kind of like the very talented performer spinning 3 plates all at the same time, one in each hand and one on his chin, each rotating and demanding of his undivided attention. How does he do it? Many stepdating couples ask the same question as they experience the balancing act of developing and nurturing an adult relationship while continuing to be a responsible and intentional parents. It's as complicated as the spinning plates because each person in the dating relationship, both kids and adults, has needs and wants that have to be balanced with everyone else's'. Little kids rarely understand dating and tweens and teens often resist or reject being part of their parent's love life. And the dating couple has to figure out when to expose their kids to their physical affection and how to carve out time for intimacy while juggling multiple parental responsibilities.

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