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The one you love and you fell in love with and he/she broke up with you. how do you recover from a broken heart?

I just broke up with the guy I was with for 3 years he is also my sons dad. We were planning to get married next year but, things didn’t work out. What I do is hang out with my friends and go to get-togethers to meet new people that way your mind isn’t always thinking about that person and it makes it easier on your heart.

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I saw a guy on and off for awhile – just a fun thing but somewhere along the way I fell for him. It has been three years and I have since met someone else which I know he isnt happy with and he wont speak to me. I need to resolve my issues and feelings but I dont want to harass him. He told me to get out of his life or he would have me up for stalking. If I go to his place of work – he works alone after all this time could he accuse me of this. It isnt like I am on his doorstep, ringing him up etc. which I thought constituted stalking.

You need to let him be, let him move on with his life. He is trying to deal with losing you, and you have to leave him alone.

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My boyfriend and I broke up recently. He still wanted me around to be his friend but I refused – too painful being around him knowing that I’ve been demoted from the love of his life to someone he randomly messages when he feels like it.

To stop this from happening, I enforced no contact and I haven’t heard from him since, that was over 2 weeks ago. I am so lonely and miserable and desperate and I’m fighting the urge to contact him.

I know that keeping busy will make me feel better, but now the holidays are here and I’m not working I’m going crazy with grief. My family live interstate and my friends are on holidays. Suggestions?
Yes I do have a dog and volunteer at the animal shelter

YOU have the power in you!
you have proven that you have some inner strength. Taking that stand was an intelligent thing to do.
Please continue to fight this urge to contact him…if he has moved on, you will feel worse!
Write down all of the mean things that he has said or done to you and refer to that list often.
It will help you to remember that he was just a person with flaws and he was not perfect and certainly not perfect for YOU!
Consider him a teacher….preparing you for the right one
now when you find him you will appreciate him that much more.
Also there is a book called ‘how to survive the loss of a love’
it is on amazon
check it out if time permits

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basically ive been with my bf a year and he left a week ago without a trace.hes changed his number ,hes literally vanished,i think hes back at his mums ,tho,so ive heard ,but theyr not answering my calls.
ive left emails and texts asking why hes done this,and hes not responding,hes totally blanking me.
obviously ,this looks like he has dumped me asnd my heart is in pieces.
i need closure,i need answers becasue he has rejected me in the most cowardly way.
why do u think he hasnt ended it with meface to face or even by fone or even email or text,just so i can get the answers as to why he has gone?i know other women in this position and they never move on becasue they were left with no explanation.
can i assume its definetly over and why has he chose to ignore me and leave with out a trace or expantion and how do i move on with my heart in tatters not knowing why one minute he was in love with me planning to get engaged and the other minute he disappears with no contact?has anyone any idea why he has done it in this way and what i should do next?i have so many unnanswered questions and i feel demoralised.

Oh my god, what an a**hole, but really he is just a coward, he couldn’t stand to hurt you and feel guilty about it. Although it hurts, he did you a favor and better now than when you are married with kids right? Can you imagine that? The closure will have to come from the fact that you can now confirm that he is not someone you would want to be married to, you saw his true colors. I know this has got to be unbearably difficult. My boyfriend broke up with me (of almost one year) also 5 weeks ago and a week before was talking about marriage and the future. I keep going over and over in my mind and it doesn’t make sense. I will have to keep working day to day on getting over it. Stay strong. Email me if you want.

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What hobbies or places i can go to ease my mind off of her? Im trying to get my head right for finals next week but i keep on thinking of her…
and No getting back with her is not an choice so please dont say that.. thanks

Working out always helped me through breakups. Do something physical, like punch a punching bag, or ride a bicycle. I think that doing something that keeps you focused on the task at hand is the best.

Maybe after finals join a club, or volunteer. Doing something like that will help you meet new friends and keep your mind off your breakup.

But I don’t think that anyone can quickly recover from a relationship that meant a lot to them. If it was meaningful, then there will be pain. Just take things slow and be happy with yourself completely before you start dating again.

Good Luck!!

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