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I like girls but I don’t understand the dating and asking out thing. How do you start to date? Anything related with dating for a someone who doesn’t know anything about it.
Dont Blink I like your answer.
Well you guy, how do I get to know her? I can’t just ask her anything like that, can I? What questions should I ask?

think of it as a hang out with someone u like
just have fun
enjoy it
dont stress it
dont take the word date seriously

kiss the girl good night
nd ure done

answer mine plz?
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I love my husband very much and his reason was because we fight too much, but I think that is something that can be fixed and we could make our marriage better. I do not want to give up so soon. We have only been married for six months now. Please help on what I should do or say to him. Thanks

I agree. 5 months is silly. However, you both need to willing to work on it. Conseling is the only way to go. You both need to learn how to resolve things without fighting.

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I’ve recently broke-up my boyfriend of three years. I don’t usually go looking for guys immediately after leaving a relationship. I like to give myself about 4 or 5 months before I’m interested in dating again.

How about you?

As soon as possible, because you never know that person you didnt give a shot to just because you werent ready might be the one! who knows!

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Im still a basic member on two sites that i like but im a little sceptical about trust and getting to know him from just a site. How did it go for full users?

Hi there,

Online dating services is getting more and more popular in the Internet world. In fact, many people worldwide, are members of various online dating services. Statistically, there are more than 40 million singles in the U.S. alone that have tried online dating sites to find romance.

While it is a great and fun way to find friends, dates, lovers and even marriage, there is risks. There are many scammers out there, that just want to steal your money or to get your email address. In my experience they go after new members… most dating sites show when you joined.

The most common trick is the visa and ticket scam. Basically it is a scam, where a attractive female from Russia, Ukraine or African countries like Ghana and Nigeria contacts a lonely foreign man. "She" quickly falls in love with him and shortly after announcing her "deep feelings" for him "she" begins to plan her travel to meet the guy in person.

Now the money issues start. She will now ask for help to get the necessary documents like visa and passport. When the guy agrees to that, she pretends to get it and next she will ask for money to ticket and travel expenses. She sends a copy of the visa (fake, of course) and the guy really has no other choice than to send more money.

Of course they will never meet. The scam will go on as long as the guy agrees to send money to her. She will come up with all kind of stories and reasons to send more money.

I got one of the craziest stories from a scammer myself… lol. I was scammed like this the first time I joined a dating site over 5 years ago and this is my own experience. It is a little embarrassing for me to admit, but I fell for it and it cost me some money. After that I did some research and got acquainted with some scammers on purpose just to see how they work.

Here are some warning signs to be aware of:

It’s too good to be true – You just signed up on a dating site and and haven’t even finished your profile and you get email from a very attractive woman.

The woman asks for your email address or ask to you write to her private email in the first letter.

She has posted her location on her profile to be from your region, but in her letter she tells you a story about why she is in Ghana or Nigeria now…

Any person asking for money, for whatever reason – Do not send money to anybody for any reason.

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This man and I have been talking for some time now and we are really getting to know each other. We have made it clear we like each other. We have talked about being exclusive in the past week but want to get to know each other better. I feel like not talking to him in fear of him rejecting me. When we are together I feel like he adores me because of the way he looks at me and treats me. How do I prevent myself from being hurt and how do I know he is sincere?

What you guys fear is what you are going to attract.

SERIOUSLY….so if it feels right don’t question it.
Don’t make this person walk into a relationship and make them carry the baggage of the past.

Take a deep breath and take a chance.

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Especially if your partner’s also your best friend and you’ve been together ten years. And the reason for the break-up is not because you’ve stopped loving each other, but religious differences.

wallow. cry eat lots of sweets watch movies DONT DATE RANDOM GUYS.. IT WILL NOT HELP, just make u cry more.but u should go out with your grlz…nd have fun…meet new ppl

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I’ve been single for about 3 years now, don’t get me wrong I’ve gone on dates, but nothing to get excited about. I’ve been in a dating rut though, it seems the guys I’ve been meeting are either looking for an easy lay, cheating on their gf or want to get married tomorrow. I could use some good ideas on where to meet smart, attractive, quality men.

Hmmm same here… however quite different for me. I’m not looking for a woman higher than 30. I’m pretty mature and all the girls I meet are to partyish. I’d say if you want maturer men and older go places like them. Bars will probably just be another guy wanting to get laid (maybe.) Try church, library colleges. Who knows I seen people there men and women look more mature than your everyday places. I swear there are men and woman out there that are perfect matches but extremely far away. I guess it all depends on where your at.

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I really thought this guy liked me…he was sending all the signals, but never asked me out. He sent me chocolate and a card on Valentine’s Day and it was then that I told him I liked him as more than a friend. He had previously been very awkward and shy but he started talking to me more after that and said he would be interested. Things died down a bit and I started to get over him, but I was really confused as to what he wanted since his signals were so mixed! I had a mutual friend ask him what he was planning to do with me. He told the friend that he doesn’t think relationships are worth it in high school because he thinks they will end quickly and he doesn’t have the time, but he really wants to stay friends and keep talking with me and doesn’t want me to think he’s a jerk. I was expecting that, but needless to say, I was still a little disappointed. I know his parents are very strict (he doesn’t have a cell phone or facebook) and make him take hard classes, so I totally understand why he wouldn’t be ready for a relationship. The thing is, I wasn’t looking for a relationship, just a date! But now that I know it’s a lost cause, I’m ready to move on. However, other people found out which is upsetting because I don’t want them to feel bad for me because I don’t feel bad myself. One person flat out said she felt bad for me, and I could sense it in another guy’s tone of voice. They both thought he liked me and felt bad that it wasn’t so. Anyways, the mutual friend told him to talk to me about it, but he never did. He probably still thinks I like him. Should I let it go? Or should I confront him about it? I think I want to talk to him about it because I need closure. We’re in high school.

.Better if both of you talk about this,rationally.Don’t involve "friends".

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My gf and I have been together for three years straight, then off and on for anther two years. She’s my first gf and the only girl I loved like this (so far). Though I had other gf’s during our two year on and off relationships, I always break up with the others whenever she wants to get back again. Recently we broke up again because she said she was tired of me (again). I love her still, but I don’t want to hurt anymore. I got some advice and my friends told me that what we need is a formal closure. How do you do that? What happens in a closure? Does that really help? How do you do a closure?

If you really love her then honestly you might not ever have a proper "closure". If you love her in your heart that much then probably she will always in some way be a part of your life, whether you are together with her or not. I am a lot older than you I would say from yr pic, but I had a thing like this and everyone thought and I thought that I should get over it. I would just say don’t hope too much for a "closure" because that is not exactly how it is. Just move on with your life. I did a lot to try to achieve a "closure" but it really just made me a horrible and sad person. You can’t say that person never happened in your life, just be glad for the good times you had and hopefully it will get better. Take care and laugh when you can. lol.

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This amazing girl at school and also works with me to. I am shy and don’t know what to do. I know some of her interests and hobbies, but I am still stuck on what to do next. Any Help?? Advice?? Thanks

The only way you’re going to find out who she is, is to confront her. This is random, but this taught me a lesson. A friend of mine past away, exactly three months ago, to this date, out of no where. He was only sixteen. What he taught me, was life is short, you never know when it’s going to end as pessimistic as that sounds, so take tomorrow’s risks today. Muster up that courage, and walk up to her and just blurt whatever comes to mind. 99.9% of the time, they’ll think it’s cute and that’ll lead to more hanging out. Or just resort to cheap funny one liners off of Google.

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