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cos i have tried it for over a year now and whilst i have made some fab friends i have found the large majority of guys are just desparate for a s**g!! and are rude and offensive on msn and yahoo
In face to face meetings in clubs etc too thats all i find
is there any hope or should i leave net dating and not try too hard
your thoughts and experiences please peeps

thankyou xxx

Like anywhere, there are good and bad experiences. I find that some people think that the internet means they don’t have to try as hard, so they skip to the chase and ask for sex. Other people hide behind the internet and want to drag meeting into some month long chat fest. It depends on who you meet.

I have found some cool people, but you have to remember that seriously 95% of people anywhere are just a waste of time. It’s a numbers game. But either way, best not to LOOK for true love online or in a club or anywhere. Just look to meet people and have fun and true love will find you.

Good luck.

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I have been married for 11 years. I have 2 kids. Both are under 8. Our life was good up to 8 years but after that my wife’s nature has been changed. First thing she doesn’t like my mom, dad and sister. Even if my parents do babysitter and most of the food preparation she always fight with them but I knew that my Wife is first to me then my parents so I have send my parents back to my country. Even if my parents call my house she always told me to insult them. Also if I call them then she always fight with me so I stop calling them.
Besides that my wife always tont me like you are dum,you don’t know how to happy me,she always bring issue of money in every topic like…because of more money you do this. She always told me that you are not capable of getting new good job even I work as a engineer and making more than $100000.She always working like boss and when ever we fight she never say sorry. I have to say sorry every time. Even if we both work I do more things then her.Pls Help me.

Hey stop letting her control you. This will get more respect from her and also yourself. Sounds like she is looking for you to stand up for yourself. But if this isn’t the case it might be time for you and the kids to think about ending the marriage.

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My ex seems to have no problem moving on with his life…I am stuck at home raising our kids without any help from him at all. I try to do things with my kids because they are my primary focus but I feel as if my life is just passing me by. My self esteem and self confidence seems to have drifted away, if it wasn’t for my beautiful kids showering me with their love I would be a total wreck.

Trust me, you w/get over it & get back to a better than before kind of life. Of course your ex has no problem moving on, because he was the problem to you, but of course not to himself. So he’s going to remain the same regardless. You on the other hand now have the sole responsibility of everything on your shoulders. Once things get settled down & as back to normal as you can get them, you WILL start to feel better about yourself. Rite now you feel like you’re at the bottom of the barrel. But slowly but surely you w/climb out of that barrel & you will be OK again. Let things start to settle down & get use to at least not having the abusive person in your life. Look forward each day to at least knowing it’s not going to end up in a fight at any point of your day. You can at least be thankful for that & know your day is going to be normal. Be thankful you have your children who love their mom & who bring sunshine & happiness in your daily life. No more doom & gloom. Just take things as they come the best way you can. That’s all that’s expected of you. Just doing the best you can for that one day at a time. Some days may be brighter than others, but there’s always tomorrow. No one said you have to be perfect by any means or that you have to do things perfectly. Just the best you can for that one day. Try to have an attitude of gratitude in that you at least have a chance of somewhat a normal day now. I know how much an abusive relationship can do to you, I too lived in one, both mentally & physically. I DO know the stress & what it does to one’s nerves. But w/o that abrasive person in your life, there’s no where you can go but up. All of a sudden you’ll notice you can finally relax & have no more fears. That alone w/change your life on it’s on in time. Be happy you have your kids who can bring you joy & smiles on your face. I KNOW for a fact you’re going to feel better. You’ll start to feel good about yourself as you look back & see all you’ve been able to overcome. And you will. I’ve walked in your shoes & know the road w/start to get less bumpy & you’ll finally be walking on level ground again. I did it, I KNOW you w/too. You w/find happiness again. You don’t know what’s around the corner waiting for you. I can promise you things WILL get better for you just like they did for me. Be good to yourself, you deserve it. I DO wish you all the best & happiness in your future…:)

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I want to sleep with someone but I don’t know him that well. I don’t want him to just dump me after we sleep together.

Think about it; you DON’T know him well enough to know if he will dump you after sleeping with him, you DON’T need to be sleeping with him!
Interest won’t happen if you give in so quickly, if he isn’t willig to wait, he is NOT worth your time! believe me, you will be happier IF you wait.

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Eharmony?Myspace?YahooPersonels?etc..?

They are all pretty good. Personally I do not care for myspace and wish they would shut that one down. Yahoo personbals is where my dad found alot of his female friends. Yahoo runs a respectable site for personals and doesnt charge for using it. Just keep in mind thoug, anyone can say anything on the computer but it is how that person is once you meet that tells the tale

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Funnily enough yes. Love happens whereever reality sometimes is not how the movies or what soceity dictates it to be. Ironically such a method of meeting someone has higher odds than the old fashioned, say bar environment. The odds on talking 2 10 random drunk people in 1 night & meeting the love of your life are far lower & more prone to failure than e-mailing 200 random people then meeting them sober. People r conditioned the bar is where love is 2 be found.

Net dating is just an avenue 2 meet someone it is not the best method it by far is not the only method just an avenue simple as that. Love is simply people of similar characters & similar situations meeting in similar sceanarios. Hence why best places 2 find love are through friends, at functions, at theartes, museums where a common interest is always present. As a guy put yourself in those places & watch the ladies come upto you.

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I tend to run away from responsibility, Ive struggled with depression all my life. Knowing this, my best friend, against my pleading, fell for me and talked me into dating her and then into marrying her. I mistaked "not knowing what I want" for "I can handle anything" and we married. I told her before we even started dating I knew a few things, like I dont want kids (she does) and I dont want to live in this area (she does). Didnt faze her. She was driven to do good things back then, plus she was hot. Since we got married 5 years ago, weve degraded drastically. Im sure my depression has brought her down. Shes given up changing the world and shes gained a lot of weight. I was frugal and never had any debt before we married. Now were $30,000 in debt and we live on her parents property. Ive never done the manly thing before. What should we do? Keep trying to work it out and save the marriage, or divorce and save ourselves? No one in her family has ever divorced and no one in mine hasn’t.
I should add that we are both in our mid 20’s, working and going to school.

Also that my relationships before her tended to die out when I stopped calling, a tribute to my lack of manliness, fear of responsibility and history of depression.

She had no romantic relationships prior to me, which leads me to believe she persists in loving me out of guilt for wasting her love on me initially.
We do not have children yet.

wow, that’s tough. It may help to try some counseling and if that doesn’t work you may wan to end it. The differences such as her wanting children and you not wanting them will just end in something much more bitter later on in life when she blames you for not wanting children when she knew all along. I’m not sure what else to say except good luck an all my best to you.
At least you are man enough to admit there’s a problem and try to resolve it.

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I’m 16 and i dated this boy for a year. And i now realize that he was verbaly abusive to me and manipulative and im still in love with him and i am afraid of him and moving on. help?

don’t try to pursue a friendship or relationship with someone that brings you down or hurts you in any way. you should cut him off and move on to someone that treats you the way you want to be treated.

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I am 35, my fiance is 23. We have been together almost three years, and counting. The problem is, as with any young man, he is feeling a bit overwhelmed, and possibly bored with the relationship. At one time, we did fun things together, and shared new experiences. he was the most attentive and romantic man I ever knew. Now, we work, pay bills, and have so little left over for anything, let alone fun. He’s bored, I’m bored, and he is feeling like there is so much more out there for him than the dull, everyday life he leads with me. Help!!! I need to know what I, (we) can do to turn things around before it is too late. He is young, and strong willed, but I truly love him and don’t want to let go. I want to find a way to ignite the fires that burned only a short time ago.

Well it sounds like you gys are getting comfortable with eachother and having to get into reality instead of tuning out the rest of the world because everyinthig was so new at first. With your age difference, you and him were probably having a great love life due to you and him both being in your sexual peak times. Women and men are on different clocks biologicly so the age diff makes sense. But when the passion is starting to fizzle you may start to realize that sex isn’t the only reason people get together and is the last reason people stay together.

There are lots of ways to spice up the love life if that is what you are really looking to do. Role play, go to a Pure Romance party (hehe) and learn from an expert and your friends what others are trying, add some bedroom accessories and try a weekend getaway. Good luck in making your choices.

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If you’ve just been through a breakup, you’re probably wondering, “Can I get my ex boyfriend back?” at least several times a day.

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