Archive for December, 2009

How to Affair Proof Your Relationship – Dr Sheri Meyers

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

Is your relationship vulnerable to infidelity? Renown relationship therapist, Dr. Sheri Meyers, offers help and answers to your most critical questions about ways to avoid cheating.

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Want to save your marriage today? Learn how to stop a divorce

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

http://www.howtomakemymarriagebetter.com/marriagehelp.html Learn how you can save your marriage today & even what to say to stop a divorce. Signup for your FREE 7 Day Report & save your marriage now.

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How do oyu get over a breakup?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Hi I am 23 and me and my boyfriend have just broke up. We’ve been going out for over 2 years and have had a good but difficult relationship, we’re both stubborn so argued a lot. I’ve been suffering from depression recently and didnt really let him know how bad i felt. It caused me to be less affectionate etc so it started to really get him down. He asked me to change loads of times but i just didnt have the personal strength or realise how badly it was affecting him. Now he wants to end it and nothing I can do will fix it. I really dont want this as I know I can get through my problems and we would be happy again. But I know that the reality is we probably wont get back together. How on earth do I get over this?I have no idea what to do I feel so lost. I havent been single since I was 18 and most of my friends have bfs. I just cant think what to do for the holiday weekend. I feel so low and just want him back. Any advice anyone?

Do you think your boyfriend!s not feeling it? 2 years course he is. Look give it a while to settle down, fair enough you say you have had depression, well he could have held on till you were feeling a bit better. But as you say he asked you to change well how do you do that when you dont know whats up to start with. Depression can be a bit baffling, for all you know maybe your relationship could have been causing this, who knows with these things. He!s thinking of you too and feeling abit lost. If he!s not well it!s in your favour getting shot of him, your only young hang in there, Day at a time stuff will get you thro, Hang in there.

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What’s the best way to handle breakup with kids involved?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Just a few weeks ago, I was posing a question on here regarding my ex-husband’s super fast relationship and how it was affecting my children. They were told she was "family now" after dating 10 days, and she moved in after 12 days. They were showered with gifts from their "stepmom". They set a wedding date for 2 months away. Both she and my ex were VERY pushy about this whole "new family" concept- even going so far as buying my girls "Mom and Me" activity books to do with this woman.

So now they are broken up- 7 weeks after she moved in. She is slowly moving her things out, and is spending the night with her mother already. She came over last night to "say goodbye" to my children and ended up staying and reading them a bedtime story. The kids even told me that she was going to call them and read them books on speakerphone later on.

I’m NOT okay with that. I think it’s dragging out a relationship that is over. I think it is harmful emotionally to the kids.

Am I overreacting?

I agree with you. It IS confusing to the kids! Don’t let it continue!

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Is it bad that i still am so deep in love with my ex after 8 months of not seeing him?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Me and my ex boyfriend haven’t seen each other since June of 2008. I missed him and of course went through the stage of missing him. We finally decided to see each other this past weekend and both of us know we still love each other. i just don’t know if i should try and work it out being that his friends seem more important right now..just need some advice.

this is pretty strange, considering my ex and i have the same issue… i haven’t seen him since june, we broke up in may… his friends are more important, and family also. his friends and family don’t like me at all anymore, and vice verse, so we’re waiting it out for awhile to see if it’s going to work.. i advise you to do the same thing. but if you really love him then time shouldn’t matter. you two are meant to be together, so do what you have to do.

good luck. :)

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what are the stages of breaking up..on a day by day basis?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009


It depends on the severity of the breakup and how connected you were to the person. The stages of breaking up are the five stages of denial. First you become sad and frustrated. You feel hurt and you feel like you will never get out of your sadness. Then you get angry. It could be that you are angry with yourself, with your ex or just everyone or anyone else around you. Third, you start trying to bargain with yourself or the other person. You think "well maybe we can just be friends" or maybe he’ll come back" or whatever. Fourth you get into a mood of indifference where you don’t know what to do next and your kinda like "whatever I don’t care". Then finally after all this you except your situation and with a positive attitude you move on. How long this process takes is different for every person and situation. You might find yourself repeating some of the steps over again as well. But, eventually it does end and life moves on.

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What do I do if my ex-boyfriend broke my heart?

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Ok so I was going out with this guy,it was only for 4 days but I honestly fell in love with him. He was sweet always telling me he loved me,missed me,wanted me,wanted to see me, and always calling me baby and everything. Now i’m white and he is black (i’m not races) but my school is. Now we both ride the bus and we both get off at a park, and Friday i stayed after with him and we actually acted like a couple.We just held hands played,played with each others hands and I just sat in his arms and he hugged me and never let me go.I was so happy and comfortable there,but I could tell he didn’t feel right,he was so stiff.Saturday I was at a party and he knew and he kept texting me freaking out about me looking at other guys.Today he texted me telling me he needs to think about us and I told him ok. Then he told me he was thing about s** and I was like what the heck.I asked were we stood and he said we were over I was in shock…I didn’t know what to do.I really miss him but he is being a Jackass and I want to cry. I want him to feel the pain he made me feel.Then yesterday he told my friend he was in love with me and he was in to me and he didn’t want anyone but me,I asked if it was a lie and he told me no and I asked how you go from in love one day to not in love the other day.I dont know what do to.How can i make him feel the pain he caused me,I don’t want to get on the bus Monday and have to see him.It will brake my heart.What should i do?

c’mon girl! Dont be revengeful.It’s going to be hard but get over him! Thats all you can do.
If you try getting even he’s going to know you still care and he wins.
The best way to hurt him is to move on. Forget him. Live your life.

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How To Recognize And Deal With An Emotional Affair

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

Visit http://www.NoBreakUp.info and discover exactly how you to deal with your, or your partners, emotional infidelity.

The topic of infidelity is a frequent topic with couples experiencing relationsip problems. When most people hear the terms ‘cheating’, ‘infidelity’ or ‘affair’, they almost always think of a passionate, romantic, physical relationship. And certainly many people do engage in physical affairs borne out of immaturity, acting out of hostility and even sexual addiction.

What is less understood however, and at times can be even more threatening to a long-term relationship than a physical affair, is emotional infidelity.

Learn how you can avoid, or recover from, this corrosive blight on your relationship at the How To Get Your Ex Back Blog at http://www.howtogetyourexback.bestreviewsandguides.com

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How To Save A Marriage – Can I Save My Marriage

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

RetrieveALover.com – Get your advice on how you can save your own marriage, learn how to cope with divorce using our useful tips! If you seriously feel that both yourself and your mate are meant to be together, learn how you can win your lover back and stop your divorce using my PROVEN blueprints at RetrieveALover.com, just read the success stories and raving reviews!

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Surviving Infidelity Mistakes – Not Saying I Love You

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com Surviving infidelity means minimizing your mistakes to survive the marital infidelity. Learn that saying “I Love You” is an infidelity mistake to avoid.

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