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the knowledge that you are already married or in a committed relationship?

Actually yes. I have continually had dreams for the last couple of years about my soul mate Matt. But I am not with Matt nor will I be in this life. I used to be bummed about it, but in actuality the fact that I know he is out there and that we have this connection that goes beyond where we physically are has been a real comfort to me. Here is a man who I’ve shared so much with and not even being separated has broken that bond. I respect and adore Matt’s position in my life, but my Cash is my Cash and I can’t for one moment sneer at us being together because he makes me happy.

I fell in love with my ex. We were on and off for about 8 months but we eventually just split for good. Now I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 months but I still love my ex. We started talking last week or so and I realized how much I really miss him. What should I do?

well sometimes there’s that someone along the no matter how hard you try u can’t get stop thinking about. right now i’m back to my 2nd girl friend, before now we last dated in 9th grade, i know we were young but i didn’t really miss her coz i saw her at school every day but after graduation i realise how much i miss her so well i’m back and thinking of marrying her. so just think before you do something but if you have strong feeling for your ex well thats a message and if u get back together try tho think why u guys split in the first place and try to make things right

About a year ago My ex broke up with me. Recently he has been talking to me alot. We hung out at a birthday party last friday and he has called me everynight since then. everytime we talk he tells me he misses hanging out with me. he said he doesnt know why he stopped talking to me before but he was really really sorry and he was stupid and immature. Do you think he wants to get back together with me?

Yea it def. sounds like he might, but i’d be careful about getting back together wtih him, if i were u, he might be regretting how things turned out now, but maybe he won’t soon and decide to break up with u first. If he does come out and tell u that he wants to get back together, suggest staying friends for awhile, to see how that goes, and then u can try going out again if things work out.

Hope this helps and good luck, .

we have slept together twice,he says that he still has feeings for me but he has a girlfriend who is five months pregnant with his baby.dont know what to do because I still love him?Do men get over someone very fast?

Why are you sleeping with him when he is with someone else? He is telling you he still has feelings for you so that you will sleep with him, he probably doesnt mean it. You need to stop sleeping with him and see if he still says these things and still wants to be with you. Your only setting yourself up for a broken heart. You deserve much better than this so let him go and find someone that will treat you with respect and love you for who you are

Hope this helps

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Which will you do ? Forget about the money and move on your life …. It will be difficult to forget him if i have to keep in touch with him on money matter.

There is a saying "never loan money unless you can live without it". It would be best to forget about the money and move on with your life. The stress and unhappiness that this situation brings can’t possibly be worth more than he owes you.

My ex and I dated for about a year and went through several bad times. We realized were everything went wrong but cant really give it another chance but the feelings are hidden most of the time.

No, you should not have a close relationship with an ex if you are truly ready to move on into another relationship.

Ask yourself how you would feel if the new person in your life had a very close relationship with their ex? Would you be OK with this?
Probably not.. It would eventually make you insecure and cause more problems in your new relationship than you ever realized….

Best to let the past stay in the past…

I feel quite heartbroken since me and me ex broke up. I think about him more than I should. I don’t want him back, he wasn’t good for me but I just think about him a lot, and about our memories together…

What in your opinion is the best way to get over him???

well of course your going to think about him you were in love with him its impossible to just forget someone existed ya know i bet hes thinkin of you 2..obviously if you broke up it wasn’t meant to be like that quote i always hear if its meant to be it will happen or theres a reason the people in your past didn’t make it to ur future..it will take some time could even be years but you will eventually get over him i would suggest just going out with the girls for a girls night out to take your mind off of it or what i do when i don’t want to think about things is blast music and exercise its a great stress reliever..hope i helped and good luck i know its hard but u can do it!

A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.

My ex-BF broke up with me 8 months ago. He told me he is not happy. Is it possible to have him back in my arms again? How can I win him back? He is still unattached.

Step back and ask yourself seriously, "WHY?"
-Why do I want to get back with him?
-Why didn’t things work out the first time?
-Why wasn’t he happy?
and then ask WHAT
-what was it that I liked about him?
-what was it that I miss most?
-what would I change this time around?
-what do I want?

That last question is very important. Ask yourself that often. And don’t just ask. Answer it honestly. What is it that YOU want? and WHY?

Good Luck!
*Mayralicious*

for the longest time i’ve been a fan of if you break up then any friendship or hopes of getting back together the relationship should be out of the question and you go on living you separate lives but all i hear lately is about how break ups are good for a relationship, can this really be true, any stories about this, examples??, thanks for your help!

Yes when u break up with some one you can get back with them. It makes the relationship stronger. It make you now if you love the person or not, if you cant live without the person are not,or if you miss being around the person but most of all it tells you how much you really love the perosn. Some relationships needs time apart so they can work out their problems and it make the heart grow. Sometimes it good to have time apart so you can find yourself and your relationship can be a good one.