Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

We broke up, she said she didn’t want a relationship at all, cause she likes being single and have fun like every normal 18 year old girl. Now I’m stuck here with a sh*ty feeling wondering if I’ll ever get her back. Cause she said it wasn’t me.. she just needs to grow up? I don’t want to lose her.. how should I deal with this I can’t just be friends if we had this romantic past. Man I’ve bin the best of boyfriend I could possibly be.

Give everything some time to cool down for a week or so.
And maybe she’s just not ready for a relationship.
Some people aren’t until they’re older than 18.
If you really care about her, wait for her.
But if she really cares about you, i guarantee you won’t be waiting long.
And if she never shows how much she cares about you, try one last time to impress her.
Then, if she still doesn’t seem phased, she’s probably not worth your time, even though you would obviously care about her a lot.

She did that to me and I sent the photo to her dad
Its a joke!!

Oh, that’s harsh. She seems pretty immature, you should be glad to be rid of her.

Besides, she’s an idiot if she thinks you’d keep it to yourself. Anyone would take the opportunity to get some revenge, I certainly would anyway. Good move sending it to her dad.

met her about 2 months ago, and i felt like we hit it off right away. i got her number, we texted a bit. i felt like i mightve sounded a bit boring. the thing is, shes a family friend of my sister boyfriend’s family, i met her at one of their get-togethers. we were texting, and all of a sudden we stopped talking a couple weeks ago. we only hung out twice after meeting but it was amazgin we’d cuddle on the couch, hold hans, etc. however, last night we had a get together at our house to watch movies, i invited her but she texted me 4 hours later at 11 with "sorry i had to work:[", thats the first text in 2 weeks. so i texted her "its cool. how was your day?" she replies "good. although work was kind of boring" first of all, she kinda sounds uninterested, maybe since we havent talked in two weeks. but i looked at her myspace this morning and she had this guy as her number one in her top friends. i'm kinda bummed about all this. her friend told me last week they were talking about me and she was asking questions about me, but she also told me she was texting someone the entire time they were together. what do i do?

should i fight for her or just back off?

we were texting and she said her work gets kinda boring
i said: do you guys just mess around when you dont have a lot of customers?
her: heck yeah. and i text
me: texting at work? you badass;]
her: i know right

she just sounds uninterested now in my opinion idk what to think

Just be more confident.

we got into a situation we were both uncomfortable with. we both expected the other to say something, but neither did. now, having been through an uncomfortable experience, she feels disrespected. i understand how she feels because i feel the exact same way! i, however am able to forgive and apologize. she wont speak to me about anything other than to say she had just left some of my things on my porch! this will kill me, please help!!

Don’t know what you mean by "uncomfortable experience"? You were together for a reason. If you want her back you need to get back to that "place". Good luck.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and now he is saying he dosent want to text me and he pretty much hates me. I really want him back as a friend. Help!

Just talk to him and ask him to at least be your friend.
It’s all about the communication.

I’m confused because, first of all I don’t get the "It doesn’t seem right" and second of all why would she have a change of heart. I treated her like a queen! Which is why I really don’t get it?

join the club…….ive got dumped badly twice in a year…..it still hurts….i lost a ton of confidence, especially because neither girl would ever tell me what went wrong

girls are gonna break your heart and make you feel like shit, thats how it is. however, occasionally youll find the one that makes you forget about everything thats happened in the past.

i hate how ppl think that we dont have feelings, when it seems to me that girls are the ones who dump us (i could be wrong, but thats just what i have seen more often with ppl i know)

About 2 days ago i broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 years. because the bad out weighed the good 10 to 1. but now i have that lonely feeling and that feeling of should i still be with her. we both said we would not do drugs. Then we break up and she goes out and gets drugs. Wow do i feel like a piece of shit. Anybody have a similar experience and how do i cope with this?

When I broke up with my boyfriend, he drowned his sorrows with alcohol, so I sort of understand how you feel. Don’t blame yourself, she chose to do it and now she must decide what she’s going to do about it. My advice is: Don’t try to persuade her to get professional help. Just tell her that you’ll be there for her and ask her if your friendship to her is more important than drugs and if she says your relationship with eachother is more important, tell her to stop for your sake. My ex-boyfriend gave up drinking and now we are best friends.

Oh, and the lonely feeling will pass. I think maybe it’s more a feeling of worry for her than lonliness.

Hope I helped =]
x

my g/f started taking 20mg of Prozac a day in the morning for about one and half months now. She just broke up with me a little over a week ago, due to what she called a declining amount of attraction to me. We have been going out for almost a year. In the last few weeks while she has been on the anti-depressant she has not had an orgasm. I have try to get her to talk to a doctor about this but she say the dose is too low to effect how she feels about me. I feel different however before she took the anti-depressants she said she was in love with me, however after about two weeks she started to question the relationship. she is currently taking 20mg in the morning of Prozac. Could the drug be the cause of her losing her attraction to me?

One side effect of anti-depressants is lack of sex drive. She could try another medication to see how that works. Or she could get off the meds completely. However, she may not want to deal with the depression instead. She should talk to her doctor about this reaction. For some people, it takes only a small dose to have the effect. You might call her doctor and mention it to him if she doesn’t. But the doctor cannot talk with you about her condition because it would be invasion of her privacy. However, there’s nothing to stop you from telling the doctor what you observe.

All of the commercials from freecreditreport.com seem to think so. I’m just curious to see if anyone has actually had this experience or if it’s just a sick marketing ploy.

i think its just a marketing ploy – no guy that loves you for you would dump you because of a credit score

One of my favorite video.

There was nothing to say the day she left
Just filled a suitcase full of regrets
I hailed a taxi in the rain
Looking for some place to ease the pain
Then like an answered prayer
I turned around and found you there

**
You really know where to start
Fixing a broken heart
You really know what to do
Your emotional tools can cure any fool
Whose dreams have fallen apart
Fixing a broken heart

And now I don’t understand
What I’m going through
There must be a plan that led me to you
Because the hurt just disappears
In every moment that you are near
Just like an answered prayer
You make the loneliness easy to bear

** repeat

Soon the rain will stop falling, baby
And I’ll forget the past
‘Cause here we are at last
** repeat

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