Stop the Pain of Break Up NOW Before It's Too Late!

ok here’s the thing. This guy and I met on Facebook about a year ago. After we chatted online for a couple months we went out to meet each other in real. I like him as a friend at the start and I knew he had a gf.

We met 5 times in total. two of them were for school things but the third time we kissed (it was my first kiss) and the whole night was sweet (1. we didn’t have sex. 2. He was broken up with his gf when we went out that time).

Seriously I wasn’t mean to do that but I just couldn’t help it. The other day I asked him so what are we now? he said he’s not ready for a new relationship yet…actually I was very upset but I didn’t want to push him so we’re still friends.

Throughout this whole year he has been breaking up and getting back together with his gf (what he told me is they are back in a good friendship again…not relationship) for 3 or 4 times. and it seems he’s still doing it now…

We still chat occasionally (definitely not as much as before the third "date"), and we are still being nice to each other (I guess I’m the nicer one though…comforting him every time he breaks up)

Frankly I know that maybe he’s just not that into me…he’s happy with that girl but he looks for comfort from me when he’s upset. but by this time I guess I like him too much to quit. What can I do??

Thanks for reading this…I know it’s too long but I have no idea how to shorten it.

to be honest i think hes using you to feel better after he goes through something with his girl. He’s not worth your time, you’re his rebound and thats not what loves about

In a relationship its always the mean who decide when to terminate the relationship, most of the time..but why is it that way? why are us women always the ones to get dumped. but we rarely dump men, instead we are always the victims? men aare always the cold hearted ones that decide they want nothing to do with us?

Haha. How old are you? Give it time……you’ll see women are OFTEN the dumpers, trust me. I guess you are quite young to have gotten the opposite impression. In high school afair it surely does seem the guys make all those moves and decisions, but just wait….it all starts to change as you get older.

Of course, the question that should of been addressed, also, why do women dump men? What about it people? Is it not about the only thing that is the same with women and men? You get married and then divorced; why? If you do not commit to a lifetime, then some will say you never did commit.. and this makes sense. I ask you why marriage is so hard? Look at the laws and see why anyone would want to marry! Example: If you went overseas and found a shakeup partner,, she can come any time as a tourist.. But if you have a fiancee or a wife, what then? She is not allowed in the United States! This is absolute fact! Prostitutes welcome and can work for the MOB asap! The MOB got around the idea of hiring men to marry, and used who, to do it? Check the votes and check what was supported! What party is connected to the MOB? Who killed John and who killed Bobby? You are not that naive, are you? Their own party! The FBI wire taps support this! Media supports what? They finally had access to these and said what? Just a start of how I will show that Communism is more prevalent here than in the former USSR. I will prove it. This is a warning and not anything that should be removed. But we know we allow Communists and have since our Nations founding. I support this, but not accepting lies that we may never hear from Liberals or the media. Harsh words, but I am not lying and will never, ever stop tellin the truth. It is not what or who I may support, it is what was and is! Earl

Couples divorce because they realize that they don’t match, when one is cheating on another, relationship problems, or because they found out something they don’t like about one another(^_^)

I thought women loved and respected honest men? Why do women dump me when I tell them I used to beat my ex wife?
I tell them just because I beat my ex wife doesn’t mean im going to beat her up!
isn’t it better if I tell her and be honest with her now before she finds out about me later and calls me a liar?
my ex wife was a drug addict and she was cheating on me!

if you can do it to one woman you can do it to another. Once an aggressive male, always an aggressive male.
If you get some help and treatment for your anger problems, and it really makes a difference to how you react at times of conflict, and you can convince a new partner that you have changed, maybe someone will give you another chance.

Do you know of any of these former couples and why did the man dump the woman?

yes, just because a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean her personality is.

Why do women dump nice professional, gentelment and go back to their ex’s who dumped them 3 times and cheet on them? What is wrong with these women? Do they actually think they will be succesfful in these relationships? How do you spot these women before you give them your heart for the future purpose? Seems like you go for it and you get this result. Is it because they have low self esteem? Family problems? Maybe I’m the problem for diving in to it?

i think it might be because the girl liked the drama of her old relationship she wanted to liv in the moment. she needs a little action in her life ormaybe shes just crazy about him

because lol i have no idea maybe were sadistic and enjoy being hurt

I am wondering what mistakes women make that makes men dump them, or not even consider dating them?

Of course the men could be at fault, but that’s not what you asked …

A woman may be too clingy … may be too controlling (not letting a man do things he wants to do) … may be too apprehensive about sex … may be embarrassingly loud in conversations … may lack a sense of humor …

Me an my husband are expecting our first child together. My husband has being acting weird he is always getting mad at me for nothing. He is never around to take me to the hospital when i need to go. He leaves is the middle of the night, He often doesn’t come home till the next day. When i ask him where he is he says with friends, A few times he said he was with a friend when his friend came over to the house looking for him. He always comes home really drunk. First I thought he was scared because we are having a baby, but he has 2 other kids. I don’t know why he is doing this? is he cheating on me? He has never acted this way before.

my first thought would be cheating. that’s exactly what my ex husband did and always lied about where he was too. you need to talk to him. did he do that with his other baby mama?
good luck

my friend of 3 months who went home for a week,dumped me as soon as she got back into town.she said there was no one new,but why would our relationship change that fast.she is 28 and past playing games i thought.we exchanged x-mas gifts and her card portrayed that she was looking forward to the relationship growing.this all happened after she got dumped by a man she thought she would marry 6 months ago.you think he wants her back and she dropped me to go back to him.

Women are just like that. They have no idea who or what they want. That’s why they’re constantly changing their mind, their hair style and color, etc. Never ask why with it comes to a woman. Just be ready for her next move.