February 8th, 2010
how do i keep a woman interested in me and where do i take her so its not just to the movies then megabowl den mac ds what else can i do?
Just going for walks is nice, a rented movie and homemade popcorn is a great date, bicycle ride, spending time in a book store, (love browsing Barnes & Nobles together), quiet things, making dinner together. I just spent a great day cleaning out flower beds and setting up christmas lights with my new guy, we had a great time then walked to the coffee shop.
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February 8th, 2010
-We were on-and-off for six months
-We broke up because I wanted a serious commitment, he wanted a casual relationship
-We stopped talking for two months.
-Meanwhile I’d see him online everyday, he’d have messages that read "I miss you" and "Baby I miss you."
-He IMs me last night, says he wants to meet up
-He than says "I miss you."
I did the stupidest thing possible, I said: "Yeah…lol…I haven’t seen you in awhile."
A half an hour later I message him once more, saying: "I miss you too and I do want to see you."
We were supposed to meet today after classes. I called him when I was in the area that we were supposed to me.
He stood me up. I left him a voicemail, just one voicemail.
I’m so mad that I messed everything up now. I still have feelings for him and it’s driving me crazy now.
ADVICE!?
you should call him or IM him and ask him why he didnt show up. there could have been a misunderstang or something really important came up. if not, then stop talking to him, youll get over him. if yes, then try coming up with a date again. if he still doesnt show up, i wouldnt call, im, text, voicemail, look at, EVER!
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February 8th, 2010
Okay so my girlfriend broke up with me just about two months ago because she said my randomness (wich most say is funny and one of my highlights) emberasses her really bad from time to time and she said its like i don’t care that sometimes i bother her (i seriously tried to not emberasse her but she doesn’t think i tried at all) which eneded up in her breaking up with me. So after nearly two months of no contact (by the way we’re both 16) she texted me today and we started a conversation and shared laughs etc etc. Then the conversation led to her saying she broke up with me because she said i had given up on our relationship (which i can understand why she might have thought that) and we had a lengthy talk about how i was sorry and how i wanted more than anything to be with her and then all of a sudden after it seemed like maybe she wanted me back she just ended the conversation saying in the middle of the talk about us "bye see you on tuesday" (we go back to school on tuesday and we’re in the same classes). So was she just trying to have a heart 2 heart with me to be friends or is she considering taking me back or what do you think the conversation including the abrupt ending means? Please help me, i’m having such a hard time through this ordeal and i literally have spent nights crying
naww poor you!
that is all so confusing,
but i understand it all completely!
i think she couldve been having a heart to heart converstaion with you..
but i also think that she might want you back.
us girls dont really have heart to heart conversations with our ex’s unless we still like them or want them back.
well most girls.
maybe you should ask her?
or if your too uncomfortable to ask her if she wants you back, wich i completely understand why.. then just talk to her, and if she’s telling you lots of things, and any secrets or personal stuff.. then thats a sign that she likes you.
girls dont just have heart to heart conversations with any guy. when they wna have a heart to heart conversation its with the guy she trusts most.
goodluck hun, hope i helped you! 
and i hope all goes well!
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February 8th, 2010
Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up in May
I just started talking to him again
whats the chance of us getting back together?
thanks alot  )
I’ve never gotten back together with an ex. Chances are slim but it does happen that if you two get back together it will actually work.
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February 8th, 2010
I take a while to fall for a guy, but when I do I fall hard!! When I was only like 11, I met a boy who went out of his way to get me to like him, well it worked, & I was stuck on the same kid all the way up until I was 16, went through this horrible depression, & realized I had to move on. I met a guy a little after this, who I thought was the most impressive guy ever. I was determined that I was not interested, until he nurtured my scarred from the previous, relationship insecure self into falling in love with him. I’m 19 now and he’s ended it with me after a 2 1/2 year relationship. I’m going to change my number & erase him out of my life because I can feel myself coming down with another depression. Both guys were crazy about me, but I think I made them feel small, like they felt insecure dating me. with the 1st guy I didn’t try, but with the 2nd I did fight 2prove that we could work, but he didn’t agree!!! Why do you think this happens to me? & what can I do to ease the pain? =(
As they say….Time heals all wounds
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February 5th, 2010
i dont get it… wouldnt it make sense to keep going on if you like the girl or at least keep her around if you want somemore
…… or is it more than that and they get bored or something?…..guys are weird
okay sweetest girl…. ms.im betta then the world……. dont judge…… and im not a slut if thats what your makin me out to be….far from it
Well, it’s a guilt thing, or a selfish thing, maybe both. And plus they know they can find someone dumb enough to give it up.
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February 5th, 2010
back in feb 2008 i met this guy over bebo he was same age as me and was my first relationship we kept talking for few months then decided to meet up. we started seeing each other more and more and as it was a distant i lived up with him. he promised me he loved me and wouldnt ever leave me. i decided to go down to my parents for my brothers birthday and stay until christmas which was 6 weeks all together .from then it all went down hill and i still dont know the reason why he wanted to leave me but the one thing that hurt me the most was he sent a email to dump me after speaking to me on msn saying how much he loved me. i suffered a years depression over it and was a total wreck and made a load of mistakes . but this june i decided to go on a free dating site i thought it was risky but went for it as all i have wanted is to be loved by someone and i started talking to someone who lived in the same area as me as i moved back to plymouth after splitting with my ex . i was being careful but after a few months we met and been together 4months now and i couldnt be happier. i just wanted some advice on how i can completely block the past out and bring in the future as i get times where i get so upset and angry i dont want that no more .
Well, I still feel the same way like you after splitting up with my ex almost a year ago (the day before thanksgiving last year). It was really tough on me, and thank goodness i’ve been with a new guy now for 8 months and couldn’t be happier.. but I still have those hurtful feelings toward my ex and what he did.
Maybe its because we are emotional people? I’m not sure. I just believe it takes time to heal wounds.
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February 5th, 2010
I just broke up with my ex and would really want some advice on the Internet as to how to get her back. I don’t want to get over her because I know I can get her back.
Thank you.
hey buddy i know thats not what you wanna hear but here is the relaity if you want her back you gotta completely let her go. dont worry she wont be with anyone. honestly follow my steps and this is the most effective. im doing the same right now and i have actually had my ex asking me to hang out with just the two of us. so it worked for me.
first send her a hand written note, no email no txt phone calls or facebook! a hand written note and tell her that you are happy that the break up happened and in fact you were thinking about it too. wish her luck and a good health and thats it.
now you need anything between 3-5 weeks depending on how nasty the break up was.
for the first week you will be all miserable so you need to get out with your guy friends and also hit the gym a lil bit.
for the second week you should start clubbing and getting out just having fun….no hooking up nor girls still ok?
during this time you should have no contact with her nothing at all….call your girl-friends or guy friends and rant everytime you feel like talking to her about it. make an anonymous blog and write down your emotions there daily trust me that will be used later.
now the third week is super important this literally the turning point. by this point she is wondering why you havent gotten in contact she is probably doing everything from asking friends to creeping your facebook to find out why you havent called. this is where you should play the jealousy card.
guys get jealous and let go of a girl but when girls get jealous they fight for it thats just the nature.
trying hanging out with girls more and maybe do on a date or two.
this is important to build your confidence which is an attraction factor to her. make sure she can easily find out about the fact you are dating around even if you actually are just meeting new people.
now the jealousy period should go on for a good lil while and watch out for signals during this time. the slightest things could work in my case it was the fact that she commented on a picture of mine on facebook that was only up for about 10 minutes meaning that she constantly checked my facebook. later on i straight up asked her and she said she did creep my facebook every time she got online so there you go!
within the forth week try giving her a short call and ask her if she wants to go for lunch. make your schedule so you cant spend more than 30 minutes with her.
MAKE THAT 30 MINUTES FUN! i cant emphasize that enough that be cool and a bit flirty but dont bring anything up.
trust me i followed the instruction and by the end she was constantly asking me if i missed her. however i didnt follow the steps completely and that put me behind a lil bit but promise me you will.
give it about 5-10 days depending on how the night went and call her and set up a date-like situation but dont call it that.
from then on treat like its a new relationship with a new girl do all the stuff the same way you did when you first met her.
one last thing …..girls are like shadows you go towards them they go away from you! you walk away from them they follow you…..this is only if they have feelings for you lol
February 5th, 2010
A couple months ago my bf and I had the "marriage talk." We’re different religions and he was worried there would be too many differences (even though we’ve been together 2 yrs and it’s never once been an issue). We ended up breaking up for no real reason 2 months ago after a completely unrelated fight.
He is out of town on business for the summer and calls me every day. He has been thinking about marriage again and wants to marry me but wants me to stop going to my church. I told him that’s asking too much of me. (Esp since he was fine w/ it when we started dating.)
I love him and want to be with him, but this is the second time in 2 years of dating that we have broken up. I know a lot of people who have taken a break or two before getting married, but is that a bad sign? (I ended things the first time, 2 years ago, for purely immature reasons, he ended things this time)
His mom broke up with her fiance last summer the day before their wedding. They got married a couple days later, with just a couple witnesses, and were divorced 6 months later. I don’t want that to be us.
We’re the same religion, that’s what’s weird. He has suddenly become very bitter about it.
We brokeup a couple of months before the wedding and then got back together and the marriage has been rocky the whole time.
Wish we had not gotten married
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February 5th, 2010
It’s been over 2 weeks, and I’m still having a hard time getting over my ex, especially since eveytime i’m close to forgetting about him, he starts small talk on msn. (and since he found a new gf less than two weeks after we broke up) I want to move on and stop thinking about him, but it’s so hard. He was my first boyfriend, and I gave him everything. We were together for 10 months. I loved him more than i ever thought it was possible to love someone. All I want is another guy to help ease the pain of being alone, someone I can talk to and slowly build a relationship with. I miss being attached to someone. Does anyone have any advice for moving on from such a messy, hurtful break-up? My friends aren’t helping…they all promise to take me out for a good time, but then never answer my calls.  I dont know what to do anymore.
well, u have to listen to boyz II men, and you should contact me =)
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