Is ex girlfriend being friendly or wants more?

March 9th, 2010

Well about a week ago my girlfriend of a little over a year broke up with me. We broke up mainly because I had some trust issues that I had to work on and she felt it would be better if we both took some time off to grow but we could still be friends. I love this girl more than anyone I have ever been with before and this breakup has been the hardest one of my life. I would do anything to get her back (which I would never do for any other ex) so I decided it would be better to tackle my own issues head on not just for her but for myself as well. The thing is I really feel that this breakup has shown my issues in a different light then ever before and I truely feel I can learn from it and overcome them. I want to overcome them with her (my ex). Additionally I have shown her (not just told her which I have) that I am taking steps to overcome these issues. Not only that she calls and texts me everyday since and tells me goodnight and asks me what I am doing that night and such. She also appreciates me showing her I am taking the steps to fixing my issues. My question is all this contact (I hardly ever iniate the contact) a sign that she is reconsidering the breakup or is she just merely being friendly?
Almost forgot she tells me she had told me she still loves me. Now I do not know if that is as a friend or what but if that is at all significant I thought you (the readers) should know

I’m not sure but I think she is being a supportive friend to you (but not romantic).

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How do you Keep Men Interested in You ?

March 9th, 2010

WHY would he say, he is busy and had to sleep early to bed and you find out he is online with chat friends and he wouldn’t want to talk to you. He would only talk to you on the weekend to ask you for cybersex. Does he really care for you.
| want to Understand a Man’s Mind…. help me pls.

i hate to say this, but honestly, i think he’s taking you for granted, and my guess is that it’s not your fault. i’m assuming that you used to have a healthy two-sided relationship and that you use the time you spend with him to treat him right, to show an interest in his life, and to be honest with him about how you feel and what you want.

maybe he wants to break up with you but doesn’t have the spine to take responsibility for his feelings and instead is treating you poorly in hopes that you’ll end it and move on. there are endless possible explanations, really, but i don’t think it’s very important to figure out which one is correct. the bottom line is that he’s taking you for granted, isn’t fulfilling your needs, and isn’t giving you an opportunity to fulfill his needs.

my advice is that you should confront him. tell him that care about him, and that you enjoy the time you spend with him, and that you want to make him happy, but that you feel taken for granted and shut out of his life and want to know how he feels and what his motivations are. maybe he’ll open up and you can work on things together. if he doesn’t, though, my advice is that you should move on. no one deserves to be treated dishonestly and with disregard.

good luck!

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Describe what a rebound relationship is?

March 7th, 2010

What are the signs it’s a rebound?

Rebound is when someone goes from one relationship to another without any break in between. Not enough time to understand what happened in one relationship before they move into another one. One that occurs shortly after the break-up of a significant love relationship. If you are in a relationship but have distanced yourself emotionally from your relationship partner, you may begin a rebound relationship before you even leave the relationship you are in. If you move quickly from a long lasting relationship into another relationship then you are probably in a “rebound relationship."

It is a distraction. It is a connection to another person that keeps us from having to experience the full extent of the emotional pain of our resent break – up. It is a misguided attempt to move on with our lives. Many people will jump back into the dating scene because they fear being alone. It’s a quick fix, one in which we can drown out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love. It can be a a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.

Here are some signs:
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Tell if Ex girlfriend wants me back?

March 7th, 2010

I think my ex girlfriend is giving off some signs that she wants me back? Tell me what you think:

-Shes texted, or called EVRERYDAY since the break up, for no reason sometimes. Sometimes its just to tell me funny things. Once it was to ask if i remembered when she backed into my car. Of course i do!

- I told her that i would drop off something in her mailbox. she said can i get it from your work? I said yes but id be more than happy to drop it off. She insisted on coming to get it… even tho her friend was on the way to her house, and she had to work in an hour. when she got here i gave it to her and walked away. She said wait, can i have a hug? I hugged her. She told me she missed me and said i smell and look good. I believe she just wanted to see me.

- during the above time, she asked if she looked good, because she has been tanning.

- She told me that she has lost weight, been nervous, had no apetite and hasnt been sleeping well. I said its probably the flu, and she no its happened every since the breakup.

- she texted me this morning "wake up!" when i needed to be up. She said she couldnt sleep.

This all started the weekend after we broke up. She broke up with me because we never did anything anymore (got routine). She has gone out and drank and partied, but always is contacting me the day after and every day for that matter. She has seen that i have been going out and partying.

Do you think she is realizing how much she loved me? We were together for 3 years, and i want her back.

Why do you want an ex back? You should move forward, not keep going backwards. She will only continue her ways. She won’t change. You’ll still be miserable. She’ll still accuse you of doing nothing. Find someone who won’t b*tch to you so much.

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Advise on dating and keeping a man interested?

March 7th, 2010

I have no trouble attracting men, but difficulty in keeping them interested. They seem to chase me and i play it cool, but as soon as i show that i’m interested and do things like reply as straight away when they text me and agree to meet every time they ask and show that i like they back off and lose interested. Any advise on this would be great especially from a mans point of view. Thanks.

Put out

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March 7th, 2010

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